Why is divorce rates in INDIA is less Compared to that of Other countries????
By Soniasony
@Soniasony (1827)
India
73 responses
@shrikantx (978)
• India
29 Nov 06
we indians are very much senstive about relation. n we knows the value of relations. Relations it really metters
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@Soniasony (1827)
• India
29 Nov 06
Yes you are right..even i feel the same realtionship really is a very big thing for us..
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@Soniasony (1827)
• India
10 Nov 06
Yeah they really are cultured enough to maintain a relationship...thanks for the response...
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@firelight (1858)
• Australia
11 Nov 06
I would think it is more because of how they are looked down upon by the rest of society if they are divorced.
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@Soniasony (1827)
• India
11 Nov 06
YEah it is a very hard feeling for a divorcee......
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@ravikiran531 (318)
• India
11 Nov 06
in india there r no contract bases marriages and there r very traditional towards there basics and once they marriage they will live togethere for life long, before there marriage they promise each other to live lifelong for that word they face so many problems but they dont get divorce, this is indian's nature sonia
@fairly4458 (842)
• United States
10 Nov 06
Because the wife is not allowed to think for herself from what I have seen & learned. She has to put up with whatever he gives, or she & her whole family will suffer.
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@Soniasony (1827)
• India
11 Nov 06
That mentality is gradually disappearing in Indian societies these days....
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@ishavasyam (1801)
• India
10 Nov 06
That may be one reason..secondly I feelthat being divorced is a status one avoids..single parenting also is a social problem...so both tend to compromise a lot...I think it is this factor which is keeping the divorce rate lesser as compered to other countries...
@Soniasony (1827)
• India
10 Nov 06
Yes thata a good point..they try to avoid th divorcee state..Thanks for response//
@banta78 (4326)
• India
20 Jan 07
I feel it is because here in india it's not only marriage of two individuals but two families get involved too. And here the familes ties are important. Moreover the couple may be modern in their outlook and way of life but still follows indian traditions and customs. I think moreover indians are religious, spiritual and beelive that marriage is sacred insitution which needs to be preserved. Besides couples are more committed here, there is trust, understanding. Besides there is stigma associated with being a divorcee, as divorces are discouraged by the society. Moreover indian couples are not ready to become single parents as life can be tough esp. indian context. But sadly divorces are rising even in india too esp. in cities as we copy the west.
@Soniasony (1827)
• India
20 Jan 07
Yes you are right mrriage in india is union of two families....evn the society is tuned to it that divorcee is thought as smething bad..thanks for your resonse..
@forfein (2507)
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10 Nov 06
Hi Sonia
Interesting thought you have there!
I am not whether it is because of the arranged marriages, but when I came to India on holiday, we got really friendly with our guide (a nice Indian boy of about 19)
He took us to his home and we met his family, and I mean ALL his family.
That was what amazed me.... All the cousins etc etc etc
Here in the UK we dont seem to do that any more, not to that extent anyway.
I am sure that in the past when the family used to get together for all the Sunday Lunches and Social gatherings it used to help to cement the family together, and so divorce was not so rife.
Now..... I am afraid in the UK it is 1 in 3 marriages end in divorce!
@Soniasony (1827)
• India
10 Nov 06
Once for a time get together of family ..gives a lot of boost to family values....one thing in India is most of families are joint families...but even that rate is getting down nowadsys..
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@psyche_shivya (879)
• India
21 Nov 06
well indians r very sentimental( or shall i say were). we always used to give importance to relations and understanding...but now a days i find its not the case. when 2 pwersons marry, we r expected to ive life, with understandings, respect, love and this is wat is a family life, but the stress of modern life and western influence and many other factors r eroding the values wfor which we stood for. earlier understanding was the key, now a days its...i'm right and ur wrong, which i thnk is not accoring to our value. and now a days its fashion to kick off our traditional values fo which we stood for
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@Soniasony (1827)
• India
22 Nov 06
Yeah thats really a apealing point..Thanks for your response..
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@euniceeleanor (5966)
• Singapore
10 Nov 06
really? i didnt know that? i would say that nowadays divorce has become so common that when two people decided to get married, there's nothing much to think (especially whirlwind romance) cos they knew that if they dont get along, they can just get divorce. that is why some people divorce even after less than 1 year of marriage
@Soniasony (1827)
• India
10 Nov 06
Yeah many feel since divorce is easily available they feel marriage is a game...
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@intellectualguy (21)
• India
10 Nov 06
sonia is that your real photo you really look good
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@Soniasony (1827)
• India
10 Nov 06
They feel the importance of understandings between each other...
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@xn48ram (76)
• India
20 Jan 07
I would say India is a developing country in all respects .. as we keep on moving ahead on the road of development .. we will have most of the social problems which are existing in the developed countries now.. I would say oppulence, self dependency, libration and ego will attract evils of the developed countries... its just like we are following them...
its worries me..
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@Soniasony (1827)
• India
20 Jan 07
Yes you are right indians are in their way to compete with the develop countries regardin this issue..
@jbakshi (63)
• India
11 Dec 06
I think we Indians believe in the "sonstitution of marriage" and hence try our best not break it till it crosses all limits.
Another reason may be - Indian women can take more bullshit than their western counterparts, which could be good as well as bad (for the woman in question). Even in today's world many women believe in the philosophy that the husband is your God and no matter what happens, you have no choice but to tolerate him (and his habits). Nonetheless, suppose one such wife decides to leave her hubby....where does she go? Her parents won't accept her and she's not independent enough to live by herself. Therefore she opts for the "doormat" life that she's been leading.
I don't know....have I been able to convey the message or did I sound too confusing? :-))
@Soniasony (1827)
• India
20 Jan 07
No you were right..So divorce rates now are proptional to modernisation..in rural india ifeel it is quite less..now
@smartbrain69 (2790)
• Canada
6 Dec 06
Divorce rate in India is less due to the culture and better understanding among family members. Respect for elders and less modernization.
@Soniasony (1827)
• India
20 Jan 07
yes i guess it happens only in india..or the place where indians are present..
@pramodthakur (2365)
• India
6 Dec 06
Because of compromise. Respect to each others. Family background. Our culture etc keep us far from divorce. Good submect you have selected Sonia.
@Soniasony (1827)
• India
20 Jan 07
So feel relationships rests on 'compromise'..i dont think its the case always..
@anirudh_b (37)
• India
10 Dec 06
because i think people are not that corageous enough to fight the situation they live in!!!We indians are so taloernt that it make as Cowards!! Isnt it so.. The gandhi theory has realy rusted the coutry.. And if we remain like this we will just keepon suffering... Please Indains its very easy to just sit back and suffer and say we are Gandhi followers..Forget him!!! Rise and fight back ...!!
@Soniasony (1827)
• India
20 Jan 07
Yeah i agree your point is right..but i dont know in wat way is it relevant to the current topic..