Did I give the right advice?

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We're not that well off, but my daughter works hard and is a great kid. In return she gets paid a pittance and is constantly taken advantage of (she nearly had a nervous breakdown at christmas) This morning was bad for her - the postman had tried to leave an important parcel, but delivered it to a local post office instead. She hiked 2 miles only to discover they needed proof of her identity, doh! (the postman had put nothing on his delivery card except: Yere it tis - go fetch. As they do.) Second time off, she caught the bus. Came home in a strange lather of excitement and panic. She had found a crumpled £50 on the bus as she went to get off! She asked a man who had just got on if he'd dropped it - no, he hadn't. She imagined it belonged to the smart looking office worker who'd got off the stop before, but she was long gone. Besides, it might not have been hers, it could have been there since the bus left the depot. Our buses are always checked before they leave for the first run, but not much once they're in service - there isn't time for more than a cursory clear-up of the empty Big Mac boxes and coke tins. At present it's in an envelope while we work out what to do. I guess the obvious thing is to tell the bus company, instructing them not to give anything more away than a sum of money was found - Ros is doing that now. Naturally, the correct claimant will report a missing £50 note (a rarity in these parts) plus the number bus they were on - but only if they trigger it was lost on the bus in the first place. We're also going to put some ads in local shops. But the note could have been dropped anywhere, anywhen by anyone. Redhill to Crawley is a long way with a lot of passengers! In other words, finding the person who dropped it is a long shot, to say the least. Don't tell me to go to the police - I've worked there, and they generally pocket cash found like this for themselves. If it was a wad, a purse or a bag of money then yes, but in this case no. I'd tell her to donate it to charity but to be honest, as Ros says we already buy our furniture from a charity store, we're borrowing from Provident to pay the electricity bill and it wasn't so long ago we were awarded - without asking - a charity handout from the local village Philanthropy fund, so in this case we've both agreed that charity begins at home! I'd say, do all we can to find the owner - including letters to the local press in all districts the bus covers - and then tell Ros to keep the cash but be prepared to hand it over if someone who is genuinely in need of the money suddenly pops up with a story on how they lost it - a pensioner, say, or a mum like me. Even a small business owner. I'm one myself (sort of - does doing this count?!) I'm in a lather over this. Poor people don't generally carry £50 notes ($100 bills), but ... What if it was a PA with the firm's daily cash and she ends up losing her job? What if it was someone who'd just withdrawn their life savings to pay an important bill? Then again, what if it was one of the many gipsies in our area, who'd won a wad at the illegal trotting races they stage on the A23 (see this week's local news - pony and trap run amuck. Three arrested. Pony dies) and he'd just picked up his winnings? I'd like to think it was something like the latter, but it don't sit easy.