Is it really important to wear high heeled shoes to look sexy?

hahaha, I think so too... thank you a! although, I do feel a bot behind when it comes to fashion especially footwears hahaha... I'm still the sneaker/flats type even at work or at leisure lol... thank you for the nice response A... ^_^ hugs...

You know I said that to my officemates before who had been badgering me to change my way of dressing or so to speak my get up hahaha. I always said I feel comfy in them... sometimes though I wanted to wear high heeled footwear but whenever I do I felt weird and had to concentrate every step or my ankles will be done for lol... But yeah... even though I wear simple clothes at some point I feel sexy hahaha even with a rounded figure lol not skinny like the trend today hahaha... you said a woman can look sexy even barefoot...hmmm... the first thing that cam into my mind is that of a woman with short hair like me lol... her hair look like she just got up from bed and in a huge man's shirt which is slipping off one shoulder and walking barefoot toward the kitchen *laugh laugh laugh* hmmm. that might be me lol... in the future hahaha... =P

Now the location matters this time. If you go barefoot, with a loose shirt on, and tousled hair, in the middle of EDSA, I might as well stop my car, roll down my window, and ask, "Where's your can?, I'm gonna drop some coins." LOL

hahaha theressa... if I were to be in that state I'd walk inside my house and crook a finger to my hubby lol... and give him a saucy wink... what say you? lmaooooo

Sexy straps! Yummy! Lol! That's sexy!

wow!!!! (I felt like covering my head) it's raining scoldings sister... waaaaaaaaah... yay1 thanks for the yelling.... I felt much better for choosing sneakers and flats hehehe... hugs... I guess you're right... at 30 I don't feel any hurts and pains on the balls of my feet or on my knees and my legs are still sexy lol... well rounded shapely sexy...=P some of my officemates who had been wearing those slinky sexy straps are complaining sometimes that their knees are aching and some... lol I just thought it was age calling their attention when they are younger than I am lol... So maybe it is because of wearing heeled foowear? wow! never thought that... I just thought a sprained ankle is the worst case you'll ever get from wearing heeled shoes waaaaaaaah... thank you thank you thank you... hugs... try sleeping with your feet up on a big pillow or two... it'll make your leg muscles and nerves feel better.that's what my mom does... ^_^

yep, I do think that high heels make the legs look longer and slimmer... I would've tried wearing heels everyday but I can't hahaha. I still go for the flats cuz my schedules are tight and when you have to run to get to the loo cuz I only have like 2 minutes eeeek! it's going to be a disaster for me lol... thanks for replying to my post mermaidivy... ^_^

ahaha... thanks for sharing beachstarz... I think so too when I'm barefoot well, at home hahaha... You're right, it's not the shoes nor the clothes so to speak but the person herself... thanks starz... ^_^

thanks elegant... ^_^ I think I can do better with a wedge but not on stilettos lol. but if I do need to wear a pair, I'll try breaking them in before I wear them out... thanks for the tip

hello shamrack... thank you... yes I do feel that when a person is comfortable in his or her skin, they radiate a sexy aura hahaha or confidence... and that sometimes there are people who look good on a certain style and others will look good at a different one... ^_^ I think mine tends to go on the simple stuff lol. thank you... ^_^

lol dawnald... that was pretty short but I got the drift... I'm still 30 and I should be going with the trend but I don't lol... I put my penny on comfort too... thank you... hugs... ^_^

Hi, mikeysmom... thanks for responding to my post... yeah, they mentioned that heels are very nice to look at but not good for the back and feet... thank you so much for the tip... hugs... you're not overweight1 I can still hug you lol... kidding... I just want to leave a lovely smile on your face... ^_^ have a blessed day... ^_^

thank you... I still wear high heels is I need to on accasions lol but on ordinary days at work or just leisure, I wear flats for comfort hahaha... ah well... i never had the "damn girl you look sexy" look but when I change my style from my regular ones, I get an occasional "damn girl you look cute" compliments from friends and officemates hahaha...but what I always hear from them is this, "gurl, you're so flawlessly fair skinned, what do you do?" lol... it's my only saving grace I think hahaha cuz it's my natural color lol =P thanks for responding jezebella... ^_^

hi, renemouche... thanks for replying to my post... I was a bit disappointed in myself for thinking I don't look sexy to others if I don't wear the trendy strappy heeled shoes lol... I guess I was a bit down when I posted this hahaha... and yes sometimes when i feel like dressing up from my usual attire I do feel really sexy tee hee..in a good way... ^_^ hugs...

hehe... yeah I always see that whenever I walk to work and see lots of women in their high heels, stiletto or thick heeled lol... I also try to wear heeled sandals on special occasions but whenever I do, I look at those things like sexy contraptions lol.. sexy torture devices hahaha...cuz most of the time after wearing them I get blisters or my feet and leg muscles are sore... bleh! =P I still go for comfort hahaha... thanks for replying to my post... many hugs... ^_^

yep, true, I wear em in special occasions lile formal parties or when I was a bridesmaid on two weddings lol. But everytime I wear them I felt like my feet are killing me lol. and you're right, if a body is well proportioned, it definitely calls for a pair of slinky high heels *wink* thanks for responding hellomickey... ^_^

hahaha. you got that right girl... I do have some heeled shoes but I rarely rarely use them lol... only on accasions that calls for formal attires... .

hi mymytri, I think so too. I look more at a person's personality than the outer appearance although these days, most look at the outside and not the inside lol... but wth? I'd still choose sneakers and flats cuz comfort is better than pleasing others lol. hee hee... thanks for responding mymytri... ^_^

hey cream! I think so too... I feel good wearing flats or low heeled wedge shoes though sometimes when we see some girl in high strappy heels, we still say, "wow!" hahaha and yeah, sexiness comes not only from what a person looks outside but it is more on how you project yourself and how you feel inside that shows on even a simple movement of a hand ^_^ hmmm... I remember one male friend who argued about sexiness can never come from the inside but on how you carry what you're wearing and stuff like that lol. I was like ha! shallow! and turned my back on my friend cuz I don;t want to argue lol... I do hope he had changed his mind about that lol... =P

I thought the same for years. that when you feel comfortable with what you are on or with your skin, it's enough to make you radiate with sexiness or confidence. lol but nowadays, lots of people go for what their eyes can only see lol... kinda shallow don't you think? hehe .. ah well, we had always been visual beings and we love to see beautiful things... but you're right, I do respect those people who can show their beauty to their partners ^_^

hi, jralivio... Yep, I can only say I got good skin hehehe... fair and still looking young at my age. but I do dress simply cuz I feel comfy with them on. I'd still say I feel sexy even with no make up on, on flats and no accessories. lol thanks jralivio... ^_^ go, flats! lol =P

hello, lucky... ^_^ I think so too... wearing high heels make a girl's walk more feminine. I'm a bit guilty of walking really fast cuz it's like a habit for me already since I don't need to worry about busting my ankle or tripping over lol... though I had slowed down consciously cuz when I was in college my mom told me like I looked like a small ball bouncing rapidly on the ground hahaha... so I walk like a woman in flats now lol not a ball hee hee... Thanks, I do try to make the most of what I have and not on what I put on... *wink* A happy day for you... ^_^

thanks for respoding forslahiri... I know what you mean.. yeah, I'm tiny hahaha, I still wear an inch high wedge sandals to at least add to my height lol but you're right too that sexiness can't be seen on what type of footwear you use but on how you carry yourself... hugs... ^_^