Post Partum Depression?
@xoxoxowithlove (100)
United States
March 11, 2009 6:43pm CST
I just had a baby 5 months ago. She is my 3rd child and we have a very close bond. She won't let me leave her sight or she cries. She has to be near me at all times. Although thats comforting and sweet, I feel a bit overwhelmed because she won't let me get what I need done. Take a shower, cook, do dishes, clean, unless she's right there with me in her sight..lol..
Lately, the hubby and I have been fighting. he works 40 hours a week. I stay at home and take care of our kids ages 5,2 and 5 months. I have been feeling real depressed for months now but I try to ignore it the best I can. It just won't go away.
I was wondering all the mommies on this site, if you are/have going/gone through it and how to get better? Please help me if you can. I hate feeling this way and I feel like my kids are feeling depressed with me when I am too frustrated or irratiable to play with them.
Thanks in advance:)
1 response
@Jae2619 (1483)
• United States
12 Mar 09
Just being a stay at home mom can make you feel down in the dumps. I am a stay at home mom, of two. Ages 6 and 18 months. With my son, the depression turned in to rage when he was born, I was in a nasty mood all the time, he was about 4 months old when all my hormones were rageing because they were trying to get back in whack, it helped to get out of the house and be away from my baby. With my little girl, who's attached at my hip, she's been like that from birth. My husband was working 16 hours a day, 7 days a week after she was born and done that clear up until she was a year old. The mood swings kicked in fast, the anger, the crying stages, it was rough but what I found helped me, was talking to my husband and telling him, Hey, I need some time to myself, whether it be a shower, some alone time on the computer, a few minutes to talk to my friends on the phone, something. I needed that outlet, which helped alot. We all know our husbands work hard, but tell him, you work hard too, taking care of 3 kids day in and day out is HARD work. Try to get a friend whom will watch your children for a few hours everyonce in a while, i know that is hard because I don't have any that will take mine that are with in a short drive. Join a mommy and me group if there's one in your area, it will get you out the house, and your kids can play for a while. Little things make a huge difference when it comes to things like that.
Best of Luck