If you fall in love with a married man,what should you do,insist or give up?

Some people would say there is no right or wrong when in love, but in my opinion there is right and there is wrong when a marriage is involved. One should never intrude other people's marriage life no matter what. End first before you start.

Dear friend, I hope in loving a married man may invite the main constraints like his wife and his kids. If they have no object and if that man is willing to have two wifes it would be better for the lover if that love is sincere. Moreover there are people who have more than one wife and also there are wives who have more than one husband. But for the respect of the society rules it would be better to have a single husband and single wife. But love has no barriers but love betraying others or which have no justifiable outcome may create much problems. It is the lovers who has to decide which love to choose and how well it goes.

I also have a friend who has the same situation as your friend. She has fallen in love with a married man but she has not done anything to avoid him. She said she tried but nothing worked because they always met in a lot of coincidences. They even met in the road and my friend said that was unplanned and she had goosebumps whenever there were signs that they are meant for each other. Many gave her advice to stay away with the man because it is not good to be with him. She did not listen. According to her she is very happy with the man and the fact that the man is already separated physically from his wife makes her stronger to fight for their love. The man realized that he loved my friend so much. I don't know if this is God's fate but even before they met, the man has already problems with his wife. They had a daughter and when they decided to go on their separate lives the man even brought his wife to her home in another country. They remained friends after a year and the girl is even aware of the affair of his husband and my friend. They were never legally separated though but they just lived it that way. Then I just found out after another year, my friend got married to the man. They really can't last a day without each other and the love became more intense to the point of living together. They are now very happy and has a two year old son. The man's daughter is not with them and it was being taken care by the man's parents. My friend said she is okay with the daughter of her husband. When I visited them I found out the whole story. And I am one of the witnesses how they fought for their love even if a lot of people disagreed at first. I witnessed how they loved each other so much that you can never call one without the other. Their parents now both accepted their fate and were very happy with their grandson. I know a lot will condemn them and say bad things against them that it is immoral or wrong. I guess not all relationships end up wrong. If it is God's will to happen then it will happen no matter what others say. Besides there are already a lot of cases like this so I am just happy with my friend for her life now.

You may help your friend,let her leave the married man early,I think this is the best to your friends.I think every man family is the first.little man can get up family,do you?

I think married people are off limits no matter what. Any time you find out theyre married, you should give up on the situation! I was dating a girl one time who had another boyfriend, and as soon as I found out she hadn't broke up with him yet, I told her to do it, or Im outta there. She didnt break up with him, so I hit the road. I would never want to be responsible for breaking up a marriage, let alone a couple who is just dating.

i think she should give up right now.maybe she is happy to be with that man now, but with the time past she will request that man a lot, at that time she will feel suffering.and maybe she will hate that man.that's we don't want to say.

your friend should give up.lots of broken families are because of some people being selfish..only think of herself and not the happiness of majority..be an angel to your friend.tell her not to do things that will make others suffer because she can't also be happy because there's what we call "conscience" and "karma". happy mylotting!

She should keep in mind that if he is willing to cheat on this wife, he probably wouldn't feel any remorse cheating on her either.