The most important factors affecting friendship
@ritefangfangliliang (580)
China
March 12, 2009 7:24am CST
I have several good friends since we were children.But since we gone to the university we rarely contact with each other.In my opinion,the most important factors affecting friendship to sum up as follow.
First,the distance.
Second,the frequency of your communication between each other.
What do you think about this question?Please give your point of view,thank you!
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7 responses
@ritefangfangliliang (580)
• China
12 Mar 09
Can you explain your point of view?why you think money is one of the fators affecting friendship?
@wxb12345 (60)
• China
13 Mar 09
when you become a women ,you are not simple as you childhood ,and money play a more important role in your life ,when you lend some money to your friends and hope he can return in time.at last maybe your friends can not take his promise for some reasons,but you need the money very seriously,this maybe produce some misunderstand between you friends who is in your heart,when the friends is not your heart ,this situation maybe worse!!
am i right?
@drdivu (1011)
• India
12 Mar 09
well, friendship depends on commitment..its like even wen the two people are fighting and not on talking terms then also, wen the second person is in need the 1st wil render help without thinking once that they had fight..thats the only thing that works..understanging and strength comes with time but this one thing..COMMITMENT..depends on person's nature..true friendshp is blessing in disguise...happy mylotting...
@ritefangfangliliang (580)
• China
13 Mar 09
Yes,commitment is another significant element for maitaining friendship.Like the old saying of "no pains,no gains".If you don't want to pay out sth,you'll never obtain what you want.Have a nice day!
@sugarfloss (2139)
• Malaysia
12 Mar 09
I believe just because you see someone less doesn't mean you're less of a friend. But keep in touch via sms,phone calls, mails or snail mail :) or even a video call! It helps:)
@ritefangfangliliang (580)
• China
12 Mar 09
Well,I think so.Maintaining friendship needs initiative.
@forslahiri (1042)
• India
12 Mar 09
Hi,
Ego,Rigidity,No-sacrifice attitude,Confusion,Mis-trust,Less dependability etc all NEGATIVE traits.
=Lahiri,Kolkata,India.
@ritefangfangliliang (580)
• China
13 Mar 09
Right,If someone have this shortcomings,he or she can't find a true friend.Maintaining a friendship needs sincere and mutual understanding.Good luck!
@AliciaLiu (61)
• China
12 Mar 09
Hi,ritefangfangliliang~I met the same problem as yours.And I suppose the distance & communication are the most important facotors as well.Your good friends must have made other friends of their own and so have you.You must have spent more time on your friends and so have they.You all lack of the communication with each other.But once you call your friends or have a chat or something,you will certainly find you are still good friends~~~Pay more attention to the friends you treasure.Sending a message ,making a phone call, mailing a letter &etc to maintain the friendship.Goood luck~(*^__^*)
P.S:I happened to see that you use the QQ picture for the photo,really great~
@ritefangfangliliang (580)
• China
13 Mar 09
Thank you for your serious response!I'm angry at some guys for earn more money to answer the topic for poor words,even some guys didn't respect of you.When I respond to discussions,I treated seriously.best wishes for you!
@rashmie (947)
• United Arab Emirates
12 Mar 09
Distance and the communication are factors affecting the friendship but these stuffs are not enough to break or make a good friend. I think, the most important factors are honesty and the commitment. Honesty is in respect to the relation, we should honest with the one whom we consider as close, a friend and the commitment is very important in maintaining a relation. In fact, without commitment, no relation can be sustained for long.
@ritefangfangliliang (580)
• China
12 Mar 09
I'm agree with you.Maintaining a friendship needs every essential factors,including honest.We can't live whitout friend,just like we can't live whitout water.We should precious the friendship we have own.
