Love life

Singapore
March 12, 2009 5:58pm CST
HI i'm a good listener to talk about love. i'm married but sometime i really need someone to listen my sadness ..and all about my pass ... can anyone tell me he/her love/married life ?
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@marty3888 (2355)
• Acme, Michigan
13 Mar 09
Well, I don't have a married life because my girlfriend decided she doesn't want to get married, though she will stay with me forever. I can say we have a love life only because we both love each other. But if you meant love as in making love, that hasn't happened in almost 3 years. She is 49. alot of women lose that age lose interest. Add to that me being unemployed and this economy, that might be the reason. I guess when I do find a job, we'll see if that does anything. By thje way, let me also add that I've never been married, never had a wedding, and now it looks like I'm not going to. Does this sound like I'm unhappy? I'm not. I waited a long time to find someone to spend the rest of my life with. We've been together for almost seven years.
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• Singapore
13 Mar 09
sounds good , i been attach with him 6year ,last year we just married . sometime i might think married is not a better ideal is just a commitment. married and attach until now i still don't understand what the difference?
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@marty3888 (2355)
• Acme, Michigan
13 Mar 09
You know, there really isn't that much of a difference. We certainly live like we're married. It's just the wedding thing. And I do think it's ridiculous when I see people spend $30,000 or more on a wedding. That's money that could be spent on much more important things. My brother had his wedding in his yard and told us theywould be more than happy to do that for us. There's no hall you have to rent, no "wedding planner," (wedding planner, are you kidding me?) just the tux, the food, the wedding cake, the wedding dress and tables for everone to sit. Probably under $5000. But I want that. My girlfriend has been married twice, both were bad and maybe that has something to do with it. But yeah, when you talk about the big picture, There's really not that much difference.
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• Singapore
13 Mar 09
ya you right ,if they spend so much in wedding ,a wonderful wedding but does not mean we got a wonderful married .
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• United States
13 Mar 09
Hi I am a good listener too. I am not married . I don't have a boyfriend. Nothing. Plus I am at a age where you wish you were with the one you will spend the rest of your life with. I am not dating anymore because men like me for freebies or money. I do not want to be a second girlfriend I want to be number one. So it is best I stay my myself. It is too bad your husband does not listen. Some men are just so stubborn.
• United States
13 Mar 09
I always hear communication is the biggest part of a relationship. If you don't have that you don't have anything. If you try and tell him that he still won't listen. He will probably hear blah blah blah correct?
• United States
13 Mar 09
You know what maybe you have to think up some good ideas to get his attention. I don't know. Something silly. It might work for a while but at least it will work.
• Singapore
13 Mar 09
yap blah blah blah or from right ear in left ear out. lucky i haven got any kids yet . if not the same thing will happen from kids blah blah blah
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
13 Mar 09
What are your sadness that you had in your past? I've had a married life, but not anymore.
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
14 Mar 09
Wow, I'm so sorry you had to go through a situation like that. I am sure you are very hurt from you loss of your loved one and you have all the right to be hurt. I may have been a traumatic event for you. I know a few people who have lost their parents from fatal illnesses and they become afraid when people have a small cold. I have this fear also sometimes.
• Singapore
13 Mar 09
If you talk about my ex boy friend,i could say i had a very good and loving ex boyfriend,but one day my granny stop me going out with him ,and asked me to break off with him,i still very love him at that time i did not give up on him and hiding behind of my granny still carry on our relationship , but time change ,he got a lungs cancel he when back to his own country Malaysia , even he suffer in sick he still treat it nothing pain in front of me. after 2 weeks he did not call me ,i called to his town and i release he pass away.................
• Singapore
13 Mar 09
I think because of my pass , me and my hubby now i having alot of stress life with him . when he just get a litter cold fur ,a miner sick , i tend to get very stress and worry . i know is too sensitive .. but i really worry my love ones will live me again. And he got a bad temper ,once i concern or advise him he will tend to thrown temper at me ,end up we will get into fight and argument.
13 Mar 09
I am with my love of my life, ther ei s know one else who i would rather be with! She has given me so much, we have 2 kids and they love us dearly!
13 Mar 09
Yeah, defo, im dan! :) nice to meet you! i think love is so complex but so easy at the same time. you can just fall in love so easily, but then to keep it is so hard!
• Singapore
13 Mar 09
Hi Nice to meet you too .. can i know how your wife treat you? as i can learn from her too.. maybe someday my husband also treat me much better ..hee hee
• Singapore
13 Mar 09
sounds good .. if i'm not wrong you are male? love really need to give and take
@Eweniks (361)
• Nigeria
17 Mar 09
It's always good for one to have fun and games while one is still single. I mean fun in a positiv sense. This makes you feel relaxed when you get married. Though as a human being, you may have feelings sometimes to play.......... Whatever the case may be, try as much as you can to control your feelings, not your feelings controlling you.
• China
16 Mar 09
i am waitting for someone coming to me,i love one who ran off with other,fact is she said love me in front of her friends,the result is she accompany other,i do not have love ,even marriage.married life is usual life.no difference,no hope ,no sunshine,love is not in forever.
• Singapore
16 Mar 09
oh so now you still with her?
• Singapore
16 Mar 09
so now you still with her?
• United States
17 Mar 09
Hi,I am a good listener.If you ever need someone to talk to just writ to me.I ve been with my husband since i was 16 and iam now 41.We had our ups and down in our relationship,we even split for awhile,but we are back together now.I Wish I had someone to listen to me at that time.