i thought its a happy ending!!!
By lalola24
@lalola24 (130)
United States
March 12, 2009 8:37pm CST
when i was small i was wondrin if there would be a guy for me...that would love me....accept me of who i am and what i am ...when i met my husband i thought his the man...but as were going to our 2nd year of marriage my God!!! his no longer the man that i knew ...his very perfectionist and always have a comment to whatever i do or say.....this is not what i dreamed off.....to tell you i really dont wanna see his face......i dont know if this will mend but its very awfull..
5 responses
@racquelvaldez (4)
• Philippines
18 Mar 09
Hi lalola, I understand what you feel but I think in every marriage there are some problems that you will encounter. Like your problem now with your husband, you are only married for 2 years so there are many problems that will come to test your relationship how strong are you as a couple. So be patient and try to talk to your husband be vocal to your feelings,maybe he didn't mean to hurt you, maybe he wants to right your wrong doings. Sometimes guys are insensitive about our feelings so let him know if you hurt to his comments.
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
14 Mar 09
That is very unlikely for a husband. He should very well aware that your feelings are important than him making unnecessary comments. He should be more understanding by now considering you were already together even before marriage. I guess he is being inconsiderate. The best thing you can do right now is to move on and focus more on yourself and believe me, there's always someone that is perfect for you. Just be patient ok?
@ladysurvivor (4746)
• Malaysia
13 Mar 09
You are lucky enough to have a husband like that. But me, my mother is like that so I have to live with it the rest of my life. Lol!
Actually I really pity you because a normal person can never tolerate a person who is a perfectionist in the sense of his mouth. We are all human beings and we have the right to do anything we want and say anything we want, as long as the things we do and say is not against the rule or our country and our religion.
I don't know whether you have tried to discuss this with your husband. If you have, and things didn't change maybe you should find a counselor so that both of you can seek help. I am sure he is not aware of his attitude. This type of attitude is something to do with self consciousness and selfishness.
Maybe it has something to do with his childhood too.
@sprinklingdemon (113)
• Romania
13 Mar 09
lalola lalola..... this is ment to happen, the change was inevitable and you can t cotrol this... if he is becoming such a big pain leave him.. if you have chids il quess you will stay with himm... because a mother will make sacrifices for her kids..i hope he will be again the same as it was at begining...