How Thoughtful Is Your Husband or Wife?

@lynnemg (4529)
United States
March 12, 2009 10:01pm CST
This morning, my husband woke me up with my cup of coffee, as he normally does. He gave me a kiss and told me good morning, handed me my coffee, and then told me that he had my bath water waiting for me. That was so thoughtful of him! To top it off, he started my van for me, woke up the kids, gave the boys their morning medication, and made sure they were all ready for school. Now, I am prett ued to him making my coffee and waking me up with a cup. It is one of the many little things he does each day to show me that he loves me. This morning, he just went above and beyond. He made my morning wonderful just by being so thoughful. I asked him why he did it all, and his rply was that he knew I had a busy day ahead of me and just wanted me to get a nice start. So, tell me, how thoughtful is your husband or wife? Does he or she go out of their way to help make your day better?
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@eagle_f15 (1827)
• Malaysia
13 Mar 09
I think that's very nice of your husband to do that for you. My husband is also a thoughtful man. Both of us work from home so he helps me with washing the dishes after we have our lunch almost everyday and he is a super fast clothes folder. He will fold the "already dry clothes" that are left on the sofa for me. I would normally keep the clothes which have dried and then put it on our sofa to be folded later when watching tv in the evening. But he would just go fold it all up for me. Another thing which he does is when I come back from going out for errands or music classes, he would open the door to welcome me and vice versa as well. My husband is also a very sensitive person. He would just know it if I am not feeling happy or very up and then he would just make silly faces to make me laugh and quickly give me a long tight hug. Hugs are good by the way. That's just my man. Always making me laugh.
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@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
13 Mar 09
Yeah, she did tell me that many times I'm like a clown, hahahaSo full of nonsense I am, haha
• United States
2 Aug 09
He is very Thoughtful. Today I got up and was kinda grumpy from going to bed late last night,because he took me out on a date to the I MAX Theater. I was checking my e-mail and he came up behind me with a glass of water and a Flower picked from our Garden in the back yard.. AWWW He loves me :D
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
27 Mar 09
Hello lynnemg! How thoughtful your husband is. I hope my husband is like that. I guess the most thoughtful thing that my husband ever did to me is kiss me in the morning the moment I wake up. Well, we don't have much time together too so probably when we are together he can make me breakfast in bed..lol!
• United States
26 Mar 09
My husband can be very thoughtful & very helpful. Sometimes if he knows i am having a bad week, he comes home from work with flowers to cheer me up. Any day that he is home he cooks. I am in school so when i study he makes sure he takes care of our daughters & they are in another room away from me so i can concentrate. At the begining of this year i had 7 teeth taken out. My 4 wisdom & 3 others. He was so unbelievably awesome. He did everything for me. Took care of the kids the whole time. Cooked daily. I am so blessed! You sound like you have it good too!
@ibelle09 (155)
• China
13 May 09
How lucky you are to have such a thoughtful husband. :) My husband will cook breakfast for me and then wake me up in the morning. You know, we both have to go to work in the early morning. It is difficult for me to get up early to cook breakfast. So before I got married, I sometimes go to work without breakfast. My husband is the one who considers breakfast as an important meal and he wants me to start a day with a wonderful breakfast. Sometimes he even just cooks for me and he himself goes to work without having anything. I love my husband.
• United States
13 May 09
My husband is actually pretty thoughtless most of the time.
@makingpots (11915)
• United States
13 Mar 09
What a sweetly considerate husband you have there. I hope you did have a very nice day after it starting off so lovely. I have a rather supportive and considerate husband myself. He enjoys showing his love in such ways. Have to make sure I never grow to take it for granted.
@zweeb82 (5653)
• Malaysia
13 Mar 09
It's just not right if the wife answers & the husband doesn't, haha!~ My wife has always been very thoughtful & I believe she always will be!~She's a home engineer & a quartermaster!~ Haha!~ Almost every morning she's got a cup of milk ready for me in my giant mug. She prepares the best meals in the world, nothing fancy but definitely always yummy!~ I think I'm being over fed sometimes, hahahahaShe keeps the house spicNspan, like washing the toilets & sinks, especially the floors as she's a clean floor freak, haha!~ Oh, and after lunch, she'll normally put the various vitamins we consume daily in a small little 2oz midget Tupperware. If she doesn't do that, then I'll be the one doing it!~ I guess we work more like a team
@Pleiades (846)
• United States
13 Mar 09
Aaahhh...thank you for renewing my doubt of any men out there who treats their loved ones like this. My brother in law is thoughtful like this. He'll be out and about and stop off Starbucks for some coffee for my sister. *Pleiades
@daneg33 (1128)
• Canada
13 Mar 09
Wow. You are one lucky woman. I would have to say my husband is pretty thoughtful. He will pick the kids up from daycare, get dinner started, help get them ready for bed. He helps wake them up in the morning, he looks after my car (all maintenance, etc.), he buys me flowers for no reason, and every day he tells me how much he loves me and missed me that day.
• United States
14 Mar 09
Ugh you're making me jealous! :) I'm lucky if my hubby even acknowledges my presence in the morning! Though he does make me breakfast on a Saturday about once a month so I can't complain too much.
• United States
13 Mar 09
Hi, Wow girl your husband is so sweet. My guy wakes me up with a cup of coffee sometimes and makes sure that the kitchen is clean before I get up and feeds the kids so that I won't have to worry about it. You are very lucky to have someone who shows their appreciation towards you.