Will you be liking and telling what you feel, with someone who has a bf/gf?

@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
March 13, 2009 12:23am CST
I never want to be involve with someone who is in a relationship. It's just gonna be messy and I know it's just going to be painful in the end. I just don't wanna hurt anyone, and just believe in karma. What if the same thing is done to me. I just don't like the idea! I don't want to complicate things! Have a nice day to all of you!
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@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
13 Mar 09
Yeah I do feel the same! Why should we ruin or try to be involved with someone who is already involved with someone. That would be very rude to do without considering the feeling of his/her partner. Better find another fortunate soul to be loved and cherished not just somebody you've seen being loved by somebody else already. You are so good my friend when it comes to posting topics. Kudos to you and God bless you always and your loveones too
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
14 Mar 09
It's the same thing with me. Why should I destroy a happy relationship? I don't wanna hurt anyone feelings! And I believe in Karma. Have a nice day to you!
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@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
14 Mar 09
Really true... INDEED! Never want to do that either
@au_dawn (76)
• Philippines
17 Mar 09
Couldn't agree more with you on that. I remember there was this instance before wherein I thought a guy I used to like was not in a relationship. I did treat him special because I really thought he was not involved in any relationship. Eventually, I found out that he already has a girlfriend. No wonder a girl I didn't know was throwing dirty looks. I felt so stupid. I ended up deleting his phone number and totally removing all connections I could possibly have with him. I tried so hard not to notice him. Looking back, I just really feel so guilty and insensitive.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
23 Mar 09
Hi my friend, well we learn it from mistakes, I still don't find it it's your fault, he was just didn't been honest with you maybe he likes you to. I don't know why there are people who makes life complicated and life is so simple. Anyway have a nice day to you!
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
13 Mar 09
Same with your idea friend I don't want to get involve anyone who has already a partner. If i know that i was falling in to a guy because of his being so cute or whatever, better to kept it into my pocket and go to the nearest coffee shop and sip my favorite coffee. It makes us a big trouble when times come. Much better to feel contented to a man i love. lol!
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
14 Mar 09
Likewise good friend, if I know that she is committed and happy about the relationship, and still gonna pursue what I feel I think I will be rude, and very selfish. I just believe in karma! Have a nice day to you!God bless! Take care my friend!
@mizstress (719)
• Philippines
13 Mar 09
its the right of the individual to express their feelings for someone else. for me its just fine if someone tell me he likes me.. its up to me if this statement will have an effect on my relationship right now.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
14 Mar 09
I think it's just fine expressing what you feel. But to destroy a good relationship, that is different. I just believe in Karma. Have a nice day to you!
• India
23 Mar 09
yah I also agree that we should not involve with someone who has already a bf or gf.well it is not intentionally but sometimes it does happened. Bcoz it is well said that love is not made but it is happened.Love is not a that thing that is done by wisdom but that love that is done with wisdom that is not love but just a trade.But even then I want to say that to love with someone already involved person is really painful.So control your emotions if you already knew about it.