what you will do?

Oh that is easy. Don't call him for day's and then see. Will be hard at first but find something to do and go. If he don't call the his loss if he does and wants to know why you haven't called tell him the truth. That he said he was to busy to talk so you didn't call. That is what I did and still do and you know what he calls me now. Your friend onlydia

For me, if my boyfriend keeps on telling me that he is busy and that's why he can't talk to me. I would not find him for awhile and see if he would find me. I strongly believe that if you really love someone, you would always have time for your loved ones.

In a nutshell, that person either doesn't care for you too much, is trying to hint that he really doesn't want the relationship, or he has someone else. There is a basic lack of respect for you there perhaps because he no longer finds your company as attractive and stimulating as he would wish, hence the constant excuse. People do get busy from time to time but when someone really likes you, they are excited by it and actually make the time to keep connected with you. The minute the excuses become regular, you should look elsewhere because that is not saying much about how valued you are for him to even make the time to speak to you. He is probably using the time to speak to someone else. Many people find it hard to break off relationships; they also change their minds about pursuing someone but lack the courage to say so. Instead they use work as a handy excuse to cool the friendship. You will always be able to tell if someone is really interested in you because they will SHOW it.

Well it depends on what or why your bf is too busy I need more detail in order to figure out what I would do in the situation.

if you are in a relationship that does not mean that you people would keep talking all the time. he has his responsibilities in life for which he is accountable, he needs time to worry about them and also time to complete those tasks. he also needs some space. give your love the amount of space and time he wants. to build a relationship it is not necessary that you keep talking all the time. whenever, you wish to speak to him, leave and SMS for him that you wish to talk. he would surrely respond to this whenver he is free. now, if you don't get this response. then there is some problem in the relationship. may be the person does not wish to continue any more. you havr to find this out, but intelligently. don't bothe rthe person by giving him call after call.

Hi, I think love demands faith. You have to keep faith in your partner and vice versa. If he is telling you that he can not entertain you because of some hectic schedule then you should take it lightly and allow him to be away from you for a while. There is another aspect of this problem. Whether, he is saying this for long, if yes then you must ask me about the stuff which is keeping him so busy. If he vacillates then you should try to talk with him and check whether any communication gap or something like this has happened between you and him. Communication with open mind may be the solution but it also needs him to allow you to meet. So, any how try to meet him at least for once.

It depends on the situation, is he avoiding you or are you demanding much more time than he has to offer,

I think somewhat it's hurtful to hear that. And sometimes it depends on whether he is making an excuse or he is really busy at work. But no matter how busy he is, I think he should spend some time with you. And a communication is essential for lovers and he should squeeze some time for you. I love China

Well, maybe I'll find it our whether he is telling me the truth or not.. If he is really busy then maybe I'll be the one who will do something so that we can be together even a couple of minutes..

A friendly advise dear friend, it is high time for you to find out if he does this often, you can check it yourself or you ask someone a favor for you, there is no harm of finding it out otherwise if he is into something or sorry to say with someone its better for you to know at this point, otherwise it would things might be complicated and much hurtful if you let it stay for long. Otherwise you need to ask him for talk and discuss matters going on and lay everything to him what you felt inside.

Perhaps he really is busy with work or school. If it is a constant excuse, do not call him up anymore and make plans with some girls that you know and spend time with your own friends and forget he exists for a while. Sooner or later when he pulls his head out of his rear end, he will come crawling back to you and phoning you. If not, then it was his way although a cowardly way to tell you to kiss off without saying anything at all. Guys are so clueless when it comes to feelings. Sucks but true.

Hi rose, in your situation there are two thing, first your bf really had a busy day and second he have a another girl. i suggest u discuss with him eye to eye good luck :)

hey if you feel that you have given him the space what he wants then dont call him up anymore wait till he calls up. let him also miss you.let him also know your importance.if you are not there with him then he ll understand your importance.

Keep patience till your boyfreind call you back when he is busy or you can do the simple thing by sending the sms if it is urgent to talk to him.You must be knowing that what kind of job or buisiness he is doing and how much work load he can be into.Try to make the ralation with understanding.

Well, it would depend on if he is truly busy or not. I mean if he was working I could understand and tell him to call me back on break or when he has time because I know he can't work 24 hours. If he still didn't call I would know something is wrong and would try to figure out why he was avoiding me. He could be wanting ot break it off but hasn't figured out how and then acts funny like being always busy and avoiding you because he wants you to be the dumper. Tell him if he doens't have time for you then you will find sonmeone who does.

i know what u mean my boyfriend is doing the same thing at the momant right now it is hard couse he goes to school to states over. but if he is working or doing school stuff that is understandible but if he is just hanging with friends and doing nothing then i get mad because it does not take that long to just diel a number or send a message through e-mail or somethingll. he could also be avoiding you i know that must hurt but the truth in the matter is that u cant depend on guys no matter what.

sorry to say this, he's just fooling around, there are 24 hrs a day, even for an hour he cnat talk to you, its' d*amn b*llsh*t thing. . . i'm a guy okey? so i knew. if he really like to talk to you, he will find too. . got it?