A question for the men out there...

Hmm, good question(s)! I've always want to answer the questions you asked. Well, appearance matters at first i must admit but it won't matter soon as i get to know her better. Which means it's a mixture of appearance and substance. For as long as she takes care of herself and presentable to the people around, then i'm fine with it. As for kids, it doesn't matter how many but as much as possible, i want to know the lady and the kids while they are still young. I may have problems with grown ups about not liking me for you. When they're still small then maybe they may like me for an uncle who's in love with their mother. As for the family, i don't care if you have an ex-convict for a brother. It's not like he's going to punch or bully me around right? I'm definitely fine with it. I'm too shy with the friends. You know, like i have a feeling that their impressions about me are bad and that i don't deserve you or something. Friends can influence your choice about me.

a woman who likes to meet people,,think quick,, talk and listen,,cook fresh meals,enjoy outdoors,,little bit of everything,,Not with one or two interests ,,appearance is not verrry Important,but a smiling face is,, kawal said soooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

Hi, To me a Woman is the symbol of 'Motherhood'. I look at her maturity,sense of humour,egotail,education/wisdom,company she keeps. Lastly,comes her appearance. =Lahiri,Kolkata,india.

Looks are very important, but I look for the intellectual level as well, if I have to have a long term relationship.

so I believe u can also smile and laugh all the time,,if u can do that ,, u will be welcomed by anybody,, I smile with everyone,, even if i am not in a good mood,, kawalnarang@yahoo.com ,, do u like to travel and meet new people?

I do look in for woman's character and her way of approaching things. I also look into woman's appearance up to some extent.