go out of your way?

Yes. I do this all of the time for my husband also. I wish it was always that way for me too though. He does try, I do have to say.

Yes I do. My husband is very easy to please and I am thankful for that. Just keep the house clean (because he is very sensitive to dust), cook food for him, don't make a mess of things and especially don't give him stress in our relationship together (like arguing or misunderstanding but to encourage him and stand along side with him. With all these kept intact, he is a happy and well pleased man. All these are able to be kept but the part in keeping misunderstanding and giving him stress still has to be improved. I have to remind myself time and again not to stress him out so we try to keep misunderstanding to the minimal.

I do try to do little things for him every day, if it is no more than fixing something he really likes for supper.

Yeah but the thing is that my girl and I are pretty much very alike and share 99% of the same things in common so its very easy for us to please each other daily.

Do you mean doing good things to please the spouse? I am not married but when I will have one, I would try my level best to make her pleased every time, every day. I don't how would I do that but I would definitely do that for sure.

everyday... i may be mad as hell at him, but i still smile and go about the day... i wish he could try to please me as much as i do for him...

Try pleasing yourself sometimes too. Lots of women forget themselves and live only for there husbands. That does not make a happy marriage. Do things for yourself, don't place yourself in the back ground. If you think you are not worth it, he will think so too. Why should he think different? Respect yourself and your husband will respect you more. Take care.

hi chantalgiardina, Well I am not married not even in relationship till date but one day i would definitely marry and would make sure my husband leaves home happy, what ever it takes to.. My best friend said that what ever the reason or anything married couples should never take a fight to the bed or it is bad for marriage and i do intend to follow it.. i m going to be a very nice wife and a mother what ever it may take. WHats the use of being married if we can not keep our spouce happy?