Can you Guide me Plz.
By rockydam83
@rockydam83 (846)
Italy
March 14, 2009 12:59am CST
I met a person through my friends. he is living in London basically he is a Pakistani guy but living in London on his student visa and studying there. I am also trying to get abroad from last 4 yrs but cant get anything yet. He offered me that he can arrange a student visa for me as well and i have to pay him 1000 pounds for this in advance and about 3000 pounds after the visa approval. I said OK i will go for it. I got 1000 pounds from my father and that money is equal to about 1,25,000/- Pakistani Rupees which is a huge amount here paid him. He went to London and until now he is doing noting. I come to know by my friends that he also collected the same amount from many other guys. We gave him money about 1 year ago and now he is vanished. We have visited his home in Pakistan and his father said he have no links with him.
Now my father is soo angry on me and i have nothing to return my father. My father is asking for money now coz we have some financial disorders but i have nothing to pay him. What i have to do in all this situation. I love my family and my father so much but the situation here have created my impression as a irresponsible and liar person to my family. Can you ppllz tell me that what i can do to bring back my trust and honur in my family.
Have you ever faced such situation, have you ever got cheated in this way in your life.
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4 responses
@lampar (7584)
• United States
14 Mar 09
You are done , friend. I am sure your money is cheated and got spend all over London night spots. There are so many con artists in UK nowadays, law and order is taking a back seat there, all these scam emails are sent from UK and counterfeit rings are all over that country. Every scam email i received promise hiring, buying goods and lottery or sweepstakes prizes are originated from UK and having return contacts there. It is so bad in London that even terrorist group can protest openly in the street for jihard and attacked several subways stations at a time.
Good luck to you.
@rockydam83 (846)
• Italy
17 Mar 09
I know that what you have told me. I get soo much depression when i think he is enjoying girls and parties with my money and i am living here a miserable life. I need something to solve all this can you give me any idea my friend.
@srganesh (6340)
• India
14 Mar 09
Well,your father shall not accuse you to the whole as he had made arrangements for that money,as you told.He,as a mature man should have verified the possibilities or enquired about that man before giving the money to you.The fault is on both of you and I can imagine the pain of losing rs.1,25,000.Sure,it is great money.For the time being,you have to find a job here and work sincerely and give the salary to your father.Not as penalty,but to repay his debts.You can be responsible to that much.Hope you get a good pay.
@rockydam83 (846)
• Italy
17 Mar 09
Well i dont blame my father for this coz earlier i got two times money from my father and then returned him back as my work was not done so in this way his trust was buildup and i myself was having good confidence but this man have cheated and now i am in all this situation.I am doing 2 jobs right now and i am really concern about to pay the debts. Well thanks of reply.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
17 Mar 09
oh gosh hon, I am so sorry, I think you will have to find a job and offer to pay him back a little bit at time,
never ever give people money again, it is a scam,
go to the canadian embassy or uk embassy whereever you want to live and ask them what is the legal way of doing things.
@anglegirl (9)
• China
14 Mar 09
what a pity!I feel that you have been cheated!You should tell this situation to your father!You asked his pardon for the mistake you made.And your father love you.You can be excused.Trust me,life is a sequence of events,happy and no happy.Lots of smile is better than cry. Happy living,anything can be resolved.Fighting!
