What will you do when you caught your gf/bf with his ex. having dinner together?

I guess I'd like to know what they are doing before I made a fool of myself, I mean maybe they are just having dinner for old times sake? Or to discuss some situation that they have in common, But I think you are right to approach them, let them speak first then take your clue from that.

You are so great in hadling such situation. I guess Ill be acting educated of course than getting allthe attention of every people in the restaurant... Its kinda lame to become hysterical. SO I guess Ill ket them know I am around and let her choose between me and him. Thats all... just pure honesty and fidelity

Personally I am not sure what I will do. I might pretend not to see them. I might walk over and confront him and give him a chance to explain. One thing I am sure is I would not happy especially if he had lied to me about having dinner with someone else. If he had told me beforehand, I may still accept. At least he is being frank and open.

Of course I will be suspicious. I think probably I will just go over to their table and joined them for dinner, see what I was missing. If there was something going on between them, I am happy I spoil their romantic dinner. But if it just casual dinner, may be they just want to talk about something then my presence would not make them uneasy. Then after the dinner, I will make sure my spouse send me home and on the way, I will ask for the explanation. If you know him or her well, then there is nothing to be worried about.

wow that's some reaction isn't it? having dinner is a pretty normal social event. even though they have broken up doesn't mean they'll remain as friends right? unless they were having a candle light dinner and holding hands. for me, i'd just go over and say hi to them. if my partner decides to introduce me, it's fine. if not, then i guess he'll have to explain to me why not. i wouldn't want my partner to do this to me if he sees me having a catching-up dinner with one of my ex. cheers

Hey there! I'd probably do the same thing like yours. Just tell me straight up if you wanna brake it up with me. Why would stay with me then sneak at my back. If I'm not in to my girlfriend any more then I'll tell her. I'll explain it to her that things has change. Have a nice day. Happy posting!!

wow, this would be a very hard situation to be in. i think i would try keep my cool and say well i hope you guys are having good time and walk out. that surely would be the last i would talk to my bf as theres no excuse or reason for having dinner with his ex.

I will just say "have a nice dinner" "wish you happiness" , and leave leave with a big smile !

I would probably start a big scene. I can't stand to be lied to so I would walk up to the table and introduce myself. I would be a complete jerk and tell my boyfriend that our relationship was over before I even walked away. Actually first I would be really nice and walk up and say hello "boyfriend" nice to see you here. Hi so and so. Oh I see the two of you got back together. Then I would make a scene. I can deal with anything, but don't lie to me and sneak around. Actually I know that is what I would do cause it has happened to me in the past. Life sucks sometimes.

I will keep it cool and probably approach them and ask how is it going. I will stay there until everything's clear with me. There couldn't be any more honesty in catching someone red-handed and seeing how they react to my questions. This way, my boyfriend nor the girl he's with wouldn't have any time to think of any excuses. Breaking up with him will depend on the information I will be able to get from them.

whenever i caught them together then definitely i will seat with them then tell my boyfriend that i am not hard to talk with so if they really want each other then let it be the case then break up with him...after all, things that are not really meant to be should not be forced to happen..if he doesn't love me anymore then i will stop loving him too..

well i dont think he can do that to me =) but if ever that happens, i think i'll make sure he see's me, i'll go to their table, then i'll just smile and stay cool then say hi and ask what their doing there. i'll check their reaction, if there's something going on or not, then leave the restaurant. but i dont need to worry on these matters because he cant take it when im angry i know he will not do anything stupid and i know he'll not do anything that can wreck our relationship =)

i dont know why people do that just leave the person and not cheat. If they dont want to be with you whats the sense thats just crazy to me i dont get it. my ex to me like she was flirtin with others so i say if you dont want to be with me go on.

ok well first i wouldnt make any assumptions on what was going on ..however i would confront my girl ask what her intentions were towards her ex and ask why she felt she had to sneak around behid my back instead of telling me how she felt

I think I would go away and wait for my hot temper to ebb a bit. It would not be a good idea to enter into the picture. I will have a serious talk with my partner the next time I meet him and let him give all his explanations. After that, I'll tell him to have a break up, whether he likes it or not.

If i caught my present partner having dinner with his ex then i'd go to their table and seat beside him.. then i'd see/check what his reaction will be.. i'd try my best not to do stupid things in front of the public.. probably, i'd ask him why he's having dinner with his pathetic ex gf then i'd try my best to listen to his explanation.. i'd walk away and see if he's going to follow me or not.. ahahaha! actually, i don't know.. i hope that would never happen to me.. because i realy don't know what my reactions will be..

i think they have that important matter to talk about. If i saw them, maybe i will just say hi, and i will look at their faces if they hiding something. eye to eye contact with my boyfriend, and also of her girlfriend too. If they feel like they are uneasy why i am there, then i think there is a problem. If my boyfriend will tell me he have important matter to discuss then its ok, but i am expecting that he will tell me about the discussion. I dont like this kind of scenario, but it will happen especially when your boyfriend and her ex have a child, business , or anything else. The most important maybe is assurance from your boyfriend that he loves you and he is faithful. but if its sounds like he wants to win his ex back, dont waste your time with him anymore. Happy mylotting!

if ever i see my bf with her ex, ill keep my cool and just say hi to both of them then leave the restaurant.. maybe they need this time to talk about everything between them. i believe my bf when he say his over his ex.. so il just wait for my bf to tell me about their conversation.. i can assure myself that he wont like to be with ex again.. hahaha LOL!

It is a very painful situation. But in fact I will go to their table say them hello and and if they offer me to join them even that offer I will not join them,rather I will say thanks and goodbye to them without showing any pain on my face.I will also show them that I have no care for them if they join a dinner together.Yet I will not feeling good even than I will not show my actual feelings to them.So that they feel that if they are happy me happy also....whether it is not true but to show the world I will have to laugh.Because if anyone knows that he is ur weakness then he will misuse this weakness and will give u more pain.......so according to me to avoid this situation silently is the best solution for this situation.If he or she loves u truly he will come back to u. If not then u will see the truth.

I would kill both of them and probably dump the bodies in the river and make sure there is no blood left for evidence