Is it normal not to talk?

If you are just dating then it is normal, you both have seperate lives, call him tommorow. If you are living together or married, I personaly do not consider it normal. When my husband is out of town I talk to him at least twice a day, when he is not out of town we will sit on the couch and talk. If there is something stressful going on in his life he may not be as talkative but if you live together there should be communication.

First of all what is that "time out"? i can hear this word only in a GAME, not in a relationship for married people. Second, talking is important so if my husband notice me not talking to him for only 5 seconds, if he does ask a question, then he will really be bothered because he will think, he might have got me angry that is why i am not talking to him. It will never be normal for us as a couple if we don't talk to each other, imagine this , i will serve food to my husband, then i just signal him on hands to eat because i am not speaking, would you think that is "normal"? i don't think so. The most annoying thing that i can do to my husband that makes him sooooo nuts is when i don't talk to him. This will really make him mad as a dog and would go out of the house if i don't talk to him. For him, silent approach is "WAR" for us. You should know your spouse very well. But i tell you, communication is vital in every relationship. Happy Mylotting!

Yes I would be worried, unless I knew what the problem was. If your spouse does not talk for one day there is a Big problem. If you don't know what the problem is, and can't find out, Its time to start packing. It is not normal behavior to stop communicating with your loved one for more than a couple of hours, especially when you don't understand and Can't find a reason.

if we're not in good terms with my husband, meaning we have LQ, then not talking in a day or two is normal..lol..but if we're ok then talking is one of our hobby..lol.we always see to it that we're ok.at night before we sleep we talked what happened that day.and i'm happy if we have that kind of conversation everyday..

Hi, The signal which I'm getting isnot FAVORABLE. He has accepted U knowing that U r a 'talker-type'. Now,silence suddenly for a day ortwo only indicates his BOredom,about You. I suggest:- U talk straight on Ur apprehension....& then Judge/decide! =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.

Depends on their personalities. My boyfriend and I live together, but sometimes he'll go to stay at his parents for a day or two. Usually, I'll just give him some space, because people do need time apart sometimes to do their own thing. But, if it's been more than a day, and he's been acting wierd lately, you could try giving him a call to asy hi, sort of thing. If he sounds normal on the phone, things are probably fine. If he doesn't, ask if things are fine the next time you see him. Either way, though, just keep the phone call short and casual when you call him. It's hard, but sometimes the best thing you can do is just wait and see for now. Think of it as taking a night out with the girls. If he called you worried that you were secretly with another guy, or worried that you didn't want to spend time with him every time you went out with other girl friends, that would stress you out.

I am not the talkative type so not talking for a day wouldn't be a problem.you two didn't have a fight? If so, staying away to cool off may be the way he deals with it. bBut if you didn't fight and it was just a say, it could have been that he was too busy at work to call . Suggestion, Maybe you two can set up a time each day to touch base. My mom and my sister would talk every day at 4pm.That way he still has his space and you can get to talk to him.

Personally, I feel there is nothing wrong if both are not staying together. However, if both are married to each other, it would be though not to talk to each other. There are many opportunities to see and meet each other throughout the day and night and I think it is not normal not to talk. Most likey it is cold war. lol.

I personally feel that partners and spouses do need time away from each other, but if you're living together, it doesn't seem normal to not speak to one another for an entire day or two. There's times when we are arguing, and we won't speak to one another for a few hours, but I'm usually the first one to give in and apologize and start talking again. It's just not a good feeling to go around the house seeing each other all day but not speaking to each other. It just makes me feel worse, plus life is way too short to be mad all of the time. I can't imagine my life without him, so I really need to stop taking the little things for granted.

Me, I would get worried. But I think you and your spouse should be able to talk everyday. If you can't or one doesn't want to talk to the other then I would think there is something wrong. I couldn't go a day without talking to my man, it would drive me nuts!! But hey I could probably be driving him nuts thinking he needs to talk to me everyday!

I think it depends in a situation, for lovers or to a spouses maybe its normal no talking 2-3 days. Or it may also depends on the cause, say i caught my hubby flirting our neighbor, oh then i would rather not to talk to him for a few days, i go sleep in the other room or will go to my sister's house and stay there for a few days.

guys gets annoyed when their gf OFTEN asks their whereabouts! specially when there gf always asked "WHY.." questions. hehehe They are BIG NO-NO in a relationship! i feel its healthy if you allow yourselves to have a "MYSELF TIME" every once in a while.. your bf/partner has his personal life to think/handle and not just your relationship..

No its not normal for a couple not to talk for a day or two... if two person is in a relationship there should be always a good communication. Even though its small things that happened through out their day or small issues, its really nice when two people talk about it. This is one the ways they could share their thoughts... Good communication with each other adds more love and binds better relationships.

The whole point of relationships, is jealosy. It keeps your love heart going! if there is no jealosy, theres no relationship, you get bored and you split! Not talking is the easiest form to create jealosy. Don't worry, its all in the natural form of the relationship! :) Dan Alldred

It would be good to have a day or two alone. I would feel smothered by all the attention. This is quite normal, I think. Stalkers also feel like knowing everything about the object of their desires. It can be a scary thing. Cheers!!

I think that you should talk to the person about it. Both myself and my partner are introverts and not that talkative, although I am more talkative than he is. We have this understanding of when he needs quiet time to work his stuff out and so I try not to talk to him first thing while he is doing that but it does not last a whole day. I was thinking that this person might be an introvert but if you live together then it is strange not to talk to each other. Even if you do not live together I think that a whole day without talking is strange but more than a day would have me concerned unless we had discussed it worked out a time when talking was ok. Having said all that, guys usually talk less and often want time out so they can do their stuff. That may be all it is but I still think that you should talk about it with him and come to an agreement about it. He may not know it is bothering you. I am a firm believer in talking about everything with no topics too sensitive. If a guy cannot handle that then maybe they are not the right person for me but I do not believe in secrets and I do believe in understanding and respecting their wishes. So talk to him. Ask him about it.

Hubby and I are not great talkers either but we do speak some every day of course. We ask how each other are doing, how are we feeling, did we sleep well, what do we want to eat, do we want to do anything special, make plans etc. but as far as the rest of the day, we are together 24 hours a day, we do not talk an extreme amount, unless one or the other wants to talk and then the silent one understands and then we can talk all day if we want to! I was a bit confused when you ask if it was normal for guys to keep away for a day? Do you mean physically keep away like leave the house or are you speaking of keeping away as far as not speaking? If you are asking about not speaking then I would think it is possible that the person has something on their mind or maybe just does not feel very well but if you mean stay away for a day physically, then I would not think this is normal if you are in a living together relationship. It also depends on if your partner is a talker normally or if you are the talker and normally he is the listener. Good Luck! ;)

Well, I am all for spending time to yourself, particularly when your in a relationship, but if your living together that doesn't sound at all normal. I mean, yes men are different from women when it comes to communication, however to not speak to each other at all for a day or two sound kinda strange. If you are only dating that still is kinda of unusual, in my opinion. when me and my husband were dating, we always took the time to atleast make small talk over the phone for a few minutes, even if we didn't do anything but ask each other how their day was. Still it may be that he's just "that way" if that's the case, then maybe you should decide if you can except that about him.

I am a talker type as well, my husband always listens to me and when I discover he doesn't not talk almost for an hour, then I may ask him why he doesn't talk. He probably tells me that he thinks I want to talk. He seldom talks a lot, if he doesn't not talk to me for a day, I must ask him whether he is angry with me or he has bad mood. We normally won't keep silence when we are together. There's must be something wrong if we don't talk. ^.^

hei friend i also have problem like you before but i realize that we have some problem before.yeah i thik good for us to far from other to relax our mind.but i think it not more than 3 days.if one of you still to be quiet to each other it will get another problem....