i wondering if there's something wrong with me?

We all have a calling in life, not everyone fits the role as we idealistically would like to be. There are people who just don't fit the 'marriage' calling, some don't fit to be married at all. There are those who don't fit to be mothers, but it's not us who knows that, we'd actually realize that sooner or later. You're still 20years old. There are things that's bound to happen, and perhaps it's because of what you've seen or heard or known not only in your family but because of society. Perhaps you've seen a lot of parents having problems with their kids. Or perhaps you don't feel capable of rearing children. Or perhaps you like to do other stuff, like having a career or business instead of staying at home. Each have their own calling. You'll know that for sure sooner or later. Remember life is a journey. We may change our minds, we may stick to our ideals or not. But nobody can say what we can and can't do. Good luck! Happy mylotting!

I am 26, also studying at a university. I have known since I was 12 years old that I do not want to have children. I did not even care to get married, although I am now and I love my husband dearly. I do not think that there is anything wrong with your not wanting a husband or family of your own. I will say that it is possible for you to meet a great man who feels the same way you do about parenting, my husband does not want children either. If your culture is anything like mine, you will have to deal with people expresing their disbelif at you not wanting children, but at the end of the day it is none of their business. Don't worry about it, you are a normal young woman with hopes and dreams, they just do not revolve around tradition. Study hard and someday you may be surprised to find out you do what those things but until then do not worry about it.

You can do whatever it is that you like to do. You can be a great woman if that is what you want. I don't see anything wrong with that. Cheers!!

Wrong??? Wow! You are one smart lady!!! If I were to do it all over again, be 20 and choose my life. I would do what you are doing! I had gotten married when I was 18, before I was 21 got two children. By the time I was 27 I was divorced. Know after all the struggling to support my children, I am 42 and living in a different country since two years. I am studying again and hope to achieve something for myself, finally. Having a family is great, but you have lots of time for that later. You never know what you will think in the future. No need to decide know. Keep on doing what you want, you are on the right track! Go for it! Take care.