PATERNITY TEST?? If he's OBLIVIOUS to INFIDELITY
By justjovea
@justjovea (24)
United States
March 14, 2009 10:33am CST
Ladies would you have a paternity test done if you were unsure if your partner was the father? If your unsure and he's positive that the child is his why have a paternity test done? Why mess up what could be a perfect family with mass confusion and possible hatred?
I just watch Maury and I have no clue why women would do this. I'm not a decieving person but it just seems crazy to me.
3 responses
@MissHarpe012 (7)
• United States
16 Mar 09
I feel like some just can't live with that lie and so they decide to tell the truth. Its all on if you want to continue a relationship of dishonesty and are you going to get paranoid afterwards. A lot of people who do wrong in a relationship become paranoid that thier lover will do something just as bad or even worse. Plus if you love someone why not tell and the possibility of them finding out later anyway due to some medical problem... For me it would be too many what if's.
@ravinskye (8237)
• United States
14 Mar 09
It would be a really hard decision. but I think that the child deserves to know who its father is. And the father of the child needs to know that they fathered the child. Sooner or later it would probably come out anyway so I think it would be better to get it out in the open right away. Health reasons would also be a good reason to have it done. You should know what kind of health problems run in the family that your child comes from.
@GAUCI123 (1042)
• Malta
14 Mar 09
It is true some women first they mess up with different men and they don;t know who is the father of thier children. It is not fair to the children themselves since they have the right to know who is their father. I will never do such a thing for the sake of the unborn child.
