Is this a problem about age in love?

@wxc6822 (185)
China
March 14, 2009 11:13am CST
My sister will get married,but,i donot like the man who my sister married.Well,he is mature,handsome,gentle,and success,but he is a little old for my sister.He is almost twice as old as my sister.my sister said,age shouldnot be something that comes in the way of a person's marriage.As long as they love each other,age is not an issue. Friends,tell me,what do you think?
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• Singapore
14 Mar 09
hey age is not a matter ,is depend on love. you know i'm 23year old but my hubby 36 year old . can be done , one of my client the gal 23 year old same as me , but his new husband at 41year old. most important as long they love each and not childish will be good.
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@wxc6822 (185)
• China
15 Mar 09
thank you for your eagerness
@sunil_008 (1269)
• India
14 Mar 09
Hi, i think your sister is right.if there is love then age is no barrier,but if something else then am not sure.but i do not understand your disliking for that man is just based on the age issue.well, when your sister knows what's she doing and who is she with then why you in the other boat saying get off of from there.
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@wxc6822 (185)
• China
15 Mar 09
yes,now i agree you,afer they love each other
@forslahiri (1042)
• India
15 Mar 09
Hi, It's Ur mindset.Not Ur sister's. Even it is the other way round,it should not come in the way of Love & marraige. It's the maturity & mutual trust will determine the decision.Nothing else! =Lahiri,Kolkata,India.
@wxc6822 (185)
• China
15 Mar 09
yes my sister do not care the age.it is my idea
@Archie0 (5652)
14 Mar 09
well i think definetly age should not be the matter between marriage, but i think there should be a particular match for age too. as we cannot accept people getting married to a older girl for a younger man. similarly it realy doesnt sound too good too marry a too old man for a young girl. i can agree to if you say the girls age may be somewhere around 26 and the guy is 32 or something but it really sounds weird if the girl is 26 and guy is 40 or 43 i really do not agree till this age.
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@abanerji (1026)
• India
14 Mar 09
the age difference between the two is too much. with so much of age difference, generally, the likes and dislikes of both differ and cause a problem. but if they love and undersatnd each other then it is not a problem. once their is undersatnding in a relationship then both would respect each others's choice and walk along well. so, if your sister is getting married to a older man who loves her and cares for her then let them go ahead with their decission.
• China
16 Mar 09
Your sister is right . Marrage only depends on love ,not others.