Internet Dating, Should I forget her?

Iran
March 14, 2009 1:46pm CST
Have been in love for a girl in another country for over a year. We were in touch and I know she loves me too. We have not met in person yet but next 3/4 months I am going to that country and that city for postgraduate study and will meet her too. During this time she was disappeared for 3 months and her email was blocked without telling me and I was so worried for her but it turned out that she was not in love with me like I thought. After 3 months she replied to my email that she was dating another boy and for a reason he left her. She said that she is devastated because she has betrayed me and also her heart! She said that she was waiting for me as I was supposed to be with her there this time but I could not get my visa on time and I send an email to her that I will reach you with delay, in June. Now again her email is blocked means that she is busy with someone else! Should I move on or see what happens in next months? I think she had the right to date someone in person instead of waiting for me...Is it a betrayal? Well last time she said she would wait for me forever!
3 responses
Niah
@Niah1976 (739)
• Paranaque, Philippines
14 Mar 09
Well, I think you should pray first. When it comes to love its easier said than done. So just go on with your life. If she comes back then, good. But you must only think if she really deserves your love. Because in a relationship it is important to be faithful and to stand by your word. How lucky is that girl!!! She doesn't know what she's missing! :(
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onemomsmission
@onemomsmission (60)
• United States
14 Mar 09
Loverboy2209, I think it isn't betrayal if she dates someone. I think you should move on also and when your are in her country for your post graduate study go ahead and meet her and see if there really is a spark between the 2 of you. You both might find out you really don't care for each other or you might find out you two were really meant for each other.
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Lore2009
@Lore2009 (7378)
• United States
14 Mar 09
Of course it's betrayal if that is what she promised! Words are just easily said these days. I think you should move forward and be open to others. She has already did this to you once and you don't need that. If you can still meet her, you should meet her too to just see for yourself, to see if she's really for you. Good luck.