Parents gifts
By Jennlk84
@Jennlk84 (4205)
United States
March 14, 2009 3:55pm CST
My fiancee and I are getting married in June and cannot decide what to get our parents as "Thank You" gifts. My parents are paying for our entire wedding, so I feel we should give them something more than my fiancee's parents - but we would like to get both sets gifts. We also don't have a lot of money to spend on these gifts. Nothing more than 100$. Any ideas?
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@Chispa514 (871)
• Montreal, Quebec
15 Mar 09
Well when my fiancee and I get married, we plan on buying something that my parents can use around the house that I know they need as a thank you, or we may just buy them each a gift card and let them choose their own gift. That way, we know they will buy something they actually want (or may need)
Its not the gift itself that matters hun, its the thought that counts
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
15 Mar 09
I think that gift cards are a good idea, and I have to agree it's the thought that counts, lol.
@elisa812 (3026)
• United States
16 Mar 09
Congratulations! When my husband and I got married, we sort of had a similar dilemma. We weren't sure what to get, and we kind of wanted to do something a little extra for my parents because they contributed the most. I know it may sound not very original, but we did gift cards for each set of parents. That way we were able to just pick the amounts, and we just gave more to my parents. My mom had mentioned to me before that once I was married and out of the house, she wanted to start trying out a different restaurant for dinner once a week with my dad. She had mentioned some of the places she really wanted to try, so instead of getting one big giftcard, I got different cards in smaller amounts for the places she wanted to try. We were still able to control our budget easily that way also. Anyway, I don't know if that helps much, but that was our idea! Good luck with the rest of your planning and have a great wedding--it will be such a fun day for you!!
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
15 Mar 09
Congratulations to you. I am also getting married to my fiance. I'm not sure exactly what to get them, but I would think the cheaper things would be something that wasn't really recognized as a wedding based gift. You know, I know this is going to both sets of parents, but they do have bridesmaids/groomsmens gifts, I wouldn't be surprised if they didn't have something for parents as well. I think that the best thing to do is find out what they like. My fiance's mom likes Danielle Steel, and Sun Flowers. My fiance's dad likes golf and poker. My mom likes pretty much anything crafty, and the colors blue and now recently a limish green (I think).
My fiance's parents are helping us pay for it, and I know they don't expect anything but I know my fiance and I are hoping to help them pay for a vacation they are taking us on + doing for themselves.
I hope that this helps.
@Jennlk84 (4205)
• United States
15 Mar 09
You're right , they do have "parent gifts" out there just like bridesmaid and groosmen gifts but I feel like they're generic. The best gift like that that I could find was a picture frame with two sides, one for a wedding picture and the other side for a copy of our invitation. I'm not so sure if that's a good parent gift or not. You could always fill one side with the invitation and leave a note in the other side saying you'll fill it with a wedding picture once the photographer has them ready.
It's great you seem to have some ideas already. I on the other hand struggled at Christmas time this year for MY parents, lol, so I'm feeling the same with a wedding gift. I just wish I had the money to send my parents on a trip after all that they've done for us, but we really just don't.
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@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
15 Mar 09
You could always do that (a note) and even so you could leave them a letter to put under the picture on how much you want to thank them for all they've done! Hope you can figure something out, but if nothing else ask! Even if you want it to be a surprise you can talk to them and ask them what kind of things they like! lol! Just be sneaky! I went to game stop one time with my fiance, the clerk told me that she would tell her parents what she got them if they were getting suspicious and then take it back and get them something else!
I appreciate the response!
@chiaeugene (2225)
• China
26 Mar 09
congrats to you too. i think you should consider getting something personal and it is not the money or price that matters but the thought.I think you should get something done up for them which they can see and view and i had a friend who did this and i think it was a really great idea. They created a wedding montage and get a song specially composed with lyrics relating to them and their family and it really add a personal touch to it. You can use it as a gift and allow your parents to share and view your wonderful moments again and again when u are not with them. The music/song can also be created in such a way that the lyrics is in appreciation of them. you can check out for more help at this site and i think they would be able to help you, www.my-song.ca