Where does the tablecloth end?...

i too have my elbows on when i go for outing with my hubby ,but not in the presence of others.once i found a tablecloth so enchanting ,that i had it converted into and i was satisfied,there were oohs and aahs from many.

I'm not sure that its a strange coincidence to match the decor of a restaurant... I mean its gotta happen all the time... the strange thing is that you noticed anything when there was Chicago Deep Dish Pizza in front of you. Are you feeling all right? PIZZA YUM!

Did someone there talk about some tablecloth missing ?. I guess you must have been concious of that all the while through.

What amazing foresight you have SaintAnne! Most women look to match shoes and belts or handbags and shoes at best, yet you go all out and dress to match the tablecloth! I remember a post a while back about a woman that had a dress made for a special event and then discovered there were curtains there made of the exact same fabric! As for me, well I'm yet to have a blending in moment. Not unless you count my visit to the insane asylum that one time. I do have to admit that I blended in pretty well there, but it had stuff all to do with my clothing!

We are expected to always behave like a proper lady but mostly treated as....... hahahahaha. Don't we find ourselves left standing often in a crowded train or bus where most of the seats boast of males wearing the attitude of couldn't care less? And so many times standing far behind in a long long queue?? S o why can't you relax, rejoice and feel happy to blend in with your favourite coloured table cloth. So long as you are not hurting anyone.........

Yeah, all the properness has a time and place, but despite the upbringing, I still like to put my elbows on the table...especially if they match the decor. Mmmm deep dish. Mmmm, Chicago style pizza!