do you love a man or woman fast or easily?

@cindyhxf (1446)
China
March 15, 2009 11:56am CST
i know many people have been fallen in love many times in life.every time we falt in love,we thought it was true love.but most of people give up "true love"so easily.to love is so easy things.but it is always hard to love a man in short time.i always thought need to wait and take more time to know of a person.love easily always get hurt easily. how do you think of this ?do you like to take more time to know of a person or just love don't think too much ?
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8 responses
@venchaul (541)
• China
16 Mar 09
"love easily always get hurt easily"yes,i couldn't agree with you any more! it is better to take some time to know one gradually and then put heart to one!thank you for your good topic!
@cindyhxf (1446)
• China
16 Mar 09
Hi friends,i 'd love to share what i thought here.thanks for response.Be happy every day!
• India
15 Mar 09
No cindy i always take this job very seriously. i desnot easily get impressed by others and even doesnot fall in love or relationship without judging others seriousness and honesty. I believe love is trust, honesty and sicerety and al these thing doesnot come easily in life and so love. so i always take time think twice than if my heart allows i will move forward or else just break the momentum.
@cindyhxf (1446)
• China
16 Mar 09
yeah ,we couldn't know a person well short time.just few people lucky to find right love for them by short time.thanks for your reply
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
21 Mar 09
Hello cindyhxf! I don't fall in love to the person easily. It takes time actually. We don't have to rush things. When loving a person, you should know that person better before deciding to commit yourself so that the time wouldn't be wasted. That's what I think.
@clorissa123 (4926)
• United States
15 Mar 09
I am one among the many. I do love a person easily, probably by the first sight. But that doesn't justify I do really know that person. I probably just love the look of that person. I don't really know about her inner side. People should spend sometimeto know each other more, rather than rush to the conclusion. Don't you think so?
@cindyhxf (1446)
• China
16 Mar 09
i agree with your point.people should spend time to know more then decide love or not.thanks!
• India
16 Mar 09
Love is not a one-night stand or a sudden incident..love needs nurturing.thereis a sharp difference between "being in true love" n "thinking of being in true love."U will know wen ur truly in love with a person at least from ur part.Easy love as u say happens mostly due to peer pressure wen ur in need of a companion..say all ur frnds r engaged n ur not..lol..!!As for me..i have alwaz believed love needs time..d more time u give urself d more ur able to decide whether u really want to b wid dat special person..as love means a hell lot than just companionship..it means commitment,care,faith,trust,honesty..n primarily being urself.If u can't b urself wid d person its not love as love will not need pretending n being dat wat u really rn't..good/bad.
@lingzi (567)
• China
21 Mar 09
hi,cindyxf,i agree with you. i think ,if i loved a person without ebough about him,i may be hurt .it's dangerous for me.
• India
16 Mar 09
Well, i desperately want to know the person absolutely and then fall in love, but my heart doesn't listen at all. I do not know when i fall i in love, and yeah most of the times, i end up breaking my heart again and again. Still i commit the same mistakes, coz in love you never know!!
@Krisneil (577)
• Philippines
16 Mar 09
No.. Im not fall that easily..