Have you thought about love but nobody/nothing came to mind?

love makes us real. It makes us feel alive, wanted and valued. It makes us feel good inside. But there at times when we are at our lowest self and feel that love is so distant and feel void in our heart. Yes, I do have those moment of loss and wish I have never love and lost. But that is life and we have to encounter that sometime in our life. Just being who you are and feel that we should have lots of love for others. Then the feeling is not so bad.

nope can't think of one right off hand and you know what? I don't care anymore. As long as I have my friends I'm fine and it took a while to get to this place in my life but thanks to a man that I loved here I'm am. Here is the kicker now he is chasing me. I could care less. That is what he gets for saying we are only friends becareful of what you ask for you just mite get it. So I go fishing and I enjoy my days with my friends. And my family oh yes that would be my son. So here is to you my friend LOVE Ya. Your friend onlydia.

Well, I have been in such situation before. But now no more considering that I am happily married with a child. There are times when we are uncertain of our future, this includes the uncertainty of someone whom we will devote our lifetime with. But just the time pass by and perhaps it will just come..... Music does play a great role with respect to our emotions. So why not listen to inspirational songs and let the love begin....

There's no way that you can know how your life is going to progress and who you will meet in the future so always keep an open mind and an open heart. I met my current husband when I was 48 years old after being single for awhile. I didn't think that I would ever meet someone I could love again and, frankly, I didn't want to either. But, there he was and the rest is history! We've been together for six years and have a great relationship so don't give up on your love life. Just be happy and find joy in each day.

modstar, you were certainly a bit sentimental last night then.. when i think of love, i still think of my ex.. waahhhh., its just painful but now, four days after the break-up, i can still feel the pain.

My children's father always comes to mind when I think about love. But, I wish he didn't. I wish I didn't love him so much. Because it just hurts that much worse that I can't have him. Right now he trys to tell me so many lies and I want to belive them. I act like I believe them so I can just spend a little more time with him. The fact of the matter is, he screwed me over. He married someone else 2 weeks after we bought our marriage license. Fact of the matter is, he used my money to marry her! I sleep with him now and again because I want her to feel the pain of an unfaithful man. I want her to pay for what she has done to me. But, deep down, I still love him and I want to belive him when he says that she threatoned to tell on him for something he did in his past if he didn't marry her. I've seen enough of how she is to know that she would be capable of doing such a thing. But, couldn't he have somehow done something to stop her? Ideally she would just up and die... but I don't see that happening of natural causes. LoL. I'm getting so carried away here. Why did you have to bring up the topic of love around an aching heart!

sometimes that happens to me too. thinking about love and nothing came to my mind. well i dont want to think that love will not come around anymore but for now there are no prospect of a soon to have relationship. for you i am sure there are a lot to come. as you said you are single. i am not feeling uninspired but just like phil collins said "you cant hurry love" lol.

Socialize more and you will feel better. We are storehouses for love and it is only right that you give and receive love. Don't be so down, listen to some soothing music and your mind will be refreshed.

this is really great thing that you are thinking about true love but seriously saying that its very tough to get true love see just thinking about it cannot help you out you have to search near by for your true love because any good thing cannot come directly to your hand it needs hardworking so simillarly try for true love.

Before when I still didn't meet my boyfriend.. Actually, I was wishing for someone to be part of my life more than a friend but that wish is impossible because we were not meant for each other.. He owns to someone else already.. Well, its ok now because I'm totally over with that wish and I'm dreaming now of being together with my boyfriend for the rest of our life.. He's the one I'm wishing for to be with me forever...

i was like you but i always think possitive that someday i will have my soulmate and yes i have him.

yeah as always. and im used to it actually. right now, i dont think those kind of stuff,,, just see whats gonna happen next, or tomorrow, no more expectations, no more commitments, just enjoy the moment being single. LOL

I too am single now...it's hard starting over. I think of those in my past and I don't see myself with any of them. But I have hope for the future. There is someone I'm interested in but he is unsure of what he wants. So it may or not work out. There may be someone else out there for me that I have yet to meet. I like to think there is...whether it's the man I'm interested in or if maybe there's someone that's even better for me. I don't know... I think sometimes we have to just be happy where we are for the moment...for moments pass and better things come our way...whether it's love, more stable life style...or whatever. Loneliness is hard to deal with but it is not the end of the world to be alone...we must see ourselves as a whole person and love who we are and where we are at this moment in time. Then, when we do meet the love to end all loves, we're ready to give more deeply of ourselves and have a full and meaningful life with someone else who wants to do the same. Good luck my friend...hang in there. Love comes our way when it right and real... Hugs, Rita

I'm not really thinking about love lately.I'm more concerned of my friends, since some of them I haven't heard from lately.I've been single for the past 2 years already,and I'm happy.I've been spoiling myself rotten!I'm not really thinking about having a love life now,especially since I have projects during the weekend.

My thoughts are really vague right now when it comes to those things. Haha I don't even have a realistic viewpoint of what I want in a man. Maybe because I grew up without a father that's why I really don't know what a "family man" is. Besides, as of my age I really think I'm still young to think about it. Heck, I love being a kid again and single but really I don't want this thing to last in my entire life. Someday, I also dream of having my own family co'z I don't want to be alone my entire life. Maybe I'll just rather go on with my life and if the right man comes along then good. I'd rather go on than wait or search for a person just for the sake of having one.

I remember feeling like I would never find true love and no man would ever want to be with me and mt three kids for the long-haul. Once I stopped looking and got comfortable being a single Mom, my husband walked into my life. Now, I couldn't imagine being single or without him again. Love finds us when we least expect it, and when we think we want it least. We never know what tomoorrow will bring.

Yes, I think we all have experienced that at some point in out lives. Like being all dressed up and having no where to go. Give it a bit of time though. I've always found that the harder you look, the less you find. And if you don't look at all, suddenly some body special will be there. Then I'll just have to be jealous...lol.

Actually there's this guy that I always think we would end up together, we are not into a relationship but our friendship is super close we are into this so called mutual understanding, though we are not romantically involved at the moment, we think we are closer to that, but lately I began feeling bored and tired waiting for him to make the first move,I am beginning to wonder if it could be better for me to involve with another guy than him. Then one night, like you, I listen to love songs on the radio and began thinking my own future too, but I no longer think of him as my future husband because of his passiveness and besides he could not make a concrete decision of his life, he is not also careful with his expenditure which I think an unimaginable for a future partner. So now every time I think of the future I couldn't think who will I ended up with.

I am in love at present so I guess I can't relate to the question. When I hear a love song, or even hear a bird chirp, the face of my special someone always comes into mind. "Naks!" Haha! But it's true. My life revolves around him now.

How are you supposed to picture someone when you think about love and you're alone or not seeing anyone? I think if someone does come to mind and you're not actually even dating that person, maybe its time to move on.