Do you think my GF is keeping her options open?
By sanju9t
@sanju9t (146)
India
March 15, 2009 11:36pm CST
Do you think my GF is keeping her options open?
OK my girl I've been dating for a 9 months now came over and left her myspace account up and I know i shouldn't of but i looked throw it and there was one message (to one of her girl friends) that said hey "i really want you to move in but i don't want my Boy friend moving in....but yeah" and there was a couple other ones to just random guys that she talks to and didn't tell me she talks to them that part doesn't bother me cause i have girls i talk to that are friends and she doesn't know about
do you think shes trying to just keep her options open or I'm i just blowing this way outta the water?
shes already cheated on me once but i for gave her and she felt really bad about...think im just over reacting?
2 responses
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
16 Mar 09
I think you should investigate more. You need solid evidence on this sensitive issue or else, you will be the one damaging your own relationship. I'm telling you, he could be a potential cheater. Those simple flirtations with other guys may lead to something more so you really stay close and have a good look on what your girlfriend is doing.
@crazyredhead (954)
• United States
16 Mar 09
I think that if you are not careful you may take it from being cautious to overreacting. Right now it just seems like you are being cautious - talk to her, just simply ask her - do you see this relationship going any farther? If she doesn't want you moving in, and she's talking to A LOT of guys then it's possible she doesn't see it moving any farther and is keeping her options open but she also may just be nervous about you moving in and have a lot of guy friends. So try not to cross the line, it doesn't appear you have. Stay cautious.
