Finders Keepers......

United States
March 16, 2009 9:01am CST
My questions first---If you found money and found out later it was someone that you knew that lost it, would you not say anything? Would you return it? What if they mentioned that the money you found was theres, would you offer it back? Or is it Finders Keepers, Losers Weepers? What if you already spent it? And now onto what happened...We live in an apartment complex, not too big about 30 apartments and its 2 story so everyone basically knows everyone else. I go outside just about everyday and talk to our neighbors and stuff and we all pretty much get along well. I have an older couple that has a daughter about 13 and we have helped them out every once in a while, with food, money, phone usuage, rides (when the husband is at work the wife needs a ride to doctors, shopping, etc because she doesnt drive), babysitting, etc and I give their daughter a ride to school every morning (which is not the same school my kids go too so it is somewhat out of the way) and I dont ask anything in return. They borrowed money from us about a year ago and only owe us about $40 of it still....anyways on to the point of my story, the daughter was outside and foung $100.00 by this little trash can outside of their door so the mother split it between herself, the daughter and another older daughter they have that lives in the same comlex. Ok, youre thinking no big deal, so was I, I thought well good for you. Well when she told me about it I said I hope it wasnt mine because when she said she found it it was foled up into 4ths, and thats what caught my attention, I had one folded like that from another neighbor who had paid me for babysitting. So I figured maybe it was at home in the diaper bag where the rest of the money was...Nope, I had lost it. I mentioned that I had lost it and it was probably mine because I had a candy bar in my back pocket, where the money happened to have been and thru it out because it was melted and yucky and I guess somewhat stuck to it was the money. UGH! I told my husband what had happened and he was more upset with the fact that they didnt offer to pay back what they owed us still or at least part of.
4 responses
@erty711 (33)
• Canada
16 Mar 09
if i know the money was your i would give it back. i never go by finders kepers unless i have no ideal who it is that lost it. and if i allredy spent it i woul give an iou or some thing like that
• United States
16 Mar 09
Thats what I would do too. Even if the IOU never got paid back, I would have thought she would have offered it. I am not terribly worried about it because luckily that was just 'extra' income for the week and I know they are kinda behind in bills and stuff but still, she is a neighbor and knows it was probably ours and we are pretty good friends and help each other out. Oh well I guess.
• United States
17 Mar 09
here i go again, going against the grain. maybe they think it is not yours. you said they told you all about it before you said you lost it. who's to say that you didn't make up the story after the fact. but you yourself really doesn't know if it was yours. i've lost money before, but i can't say where i've lost it at. someone else finds it where i was, i could've been mine, but it might not have been either. either way, i can't see giving you the money because you lost money. and believe me, i'm pretty honest when it comes to money, i had an arguement with a guy last week because i told him he gave me a 20, and he thought it was a 5. i sat there for thirty minutes telling him that he did give me too much money. all i'm saying is look at it from their side. but i definately would get my $40 back from them. but the $100 you'll probably never see again.
@benny128 (3615)
17 Mar 09
I would give it back as it wasnt yours to take at the end of the day.
• United States
16 Mar 09
I would like to think I would give the money to the person I knew it would belong to. It seems like keeping it would be like stealing. I would not want to be a theif. Their just is not enough honest people in this world.