Family Member Fued

United States
March 16, 2009 2:04pm CST
So i have sort of a strange family situation. it has been like this every since i was growing up. my biological father did not want anything to do with my mom after she was pregnant. she married someone else who adopted me and that same year my biological father died. that same year his mother found us and wanted to be a part of my life, giving me 3 sets of grandparents. this lady is so outspoken i just cannot handle her anymore. the man my mom married has taken care of me since i was 3 years old and she had the nerve to tell me that he isn't really my daughters grandfather!! she also told me that she finds my mother as well as my grandmother to be two of the weakest women she knows. i no longer want this person in my life but i feel guilty because i am the last link to her son that she has. my daughters birthday party is coming up and is to be held at my mothers house. she told me this lady is not welcome in her house which i'm fine with. i don't want her there either. how do you break the news to this entire side of my family that i no longer want anything to do with this woman? the rest of the family is fine. it's just my 'grandmother'!
1 response
@dvschic (1795)
• United States
16 Mar 09
You have two options; 1 dont invite her, 2 invite her and have a talk to her before hand. maybe she doesn't realize how caustic her words are or that they are unwelcome. a lot of times, it takes someone pointing them out to you for you to see...