what if your husband is the caretaker of your brother in law's mistress?

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I just lately heard this story from a friend who needs help and asking help and advice from the people she know because she sense something went wrong with their marriage between her husband.She's been married for a few years and they have 3 kids already who are still very young. Her husband don't have a job and he just served in church as a volunteer. Her husband have a brother who work in the US and he is also married with kids but older already.Sad to say while his brother is working far from his family he have a girlfriend also who live the same place where his family live. The serious problem just came out in their family when she notice a receipt in the wallet from her husband and it bears a girl's name in it. Since she became upset so her husband don't have the choice but to tell her that his brother asked him to take care of his girlfriend while he work abroad. That's very shocking for her you know. (and i think most wife cannot accept or tolerate this kind of behavior). So her husband tried to explain to her that the girl is not his but it's his brother's girl .Her brother-in-law sends the money to the girl as a keeper of his salary instead of sending it to his wife. That's really ridiculous because they have kids and who are studying in college and the salary of the wife is not enough to support them all. But being a wife, what would you do if your husband will do the same? Would you believe if he says that the girl is not for him eventhough you know that your husband and the girlfriend of his brother who he is taking care of have seen each other everyday in the mall(as the husband said) maybe not in the mall at all. Maybe he and his brother share the same girl. So the wife became wild with that idea and she asked her husband angrily to stop seeing that girl . But actually, she didnt believed it at first what her husband told her, so her husband called his mother in the US so that she can tell his wife the truth about that girlfriend of his brother. Now....that's really worst because even the mother is involve in such adultery thing. SO her mother-in-law explained to her that it's true the girl is the girlfriend or mistress or whatever of her other son and not her for her husband. That's double shocking for her because she didnt understand why a mother tolerate the actions of her 2 sons to do such crazy thing knowing the wife of his brother -in-law is very nice and she found no problem with her because she's taking good care of their relationship and their kids. Her husband promised her not to see that girl anymore and he told his wife that he wouldn't get involve again in the affair of his brother...But guess what....few days after....after she came home from work ,she found out from her daughter that her husband brought a girl to their own bedroom . She's more than frustrated with that idea because she could never imagine how her husband could do such devilish thing. For me it very unforgivable because her husband brought that woman to their house , to their own bedroom and touched her obviously while in the presence of her minor daughter in the house.But at that time , the girl is not in their house anymore when she arrived.... If you are the wife in this situation what would you do if you are so much in love with your husband?Would you do divorce and just go away from him or would rather wait til your husband change himself which i think is not impossible (but also unbelievable)