What if you Fell Inlove with Someone's Fabricated Personality?

well, i guess it's easier to forget the person with a fabricated personality you fell in love with. but it sure would make me really, really mad. i don't know whether to be mad at him for the dception or mad at me for not figuring it out right there and then.

Hey ratyz!^^ I didn't know you like Korean movies! I've watched that film too before! I totally laughed over it! It was such a nice movie and kinda sad too. Koreans are really good with their romantic comedy movies. Hey, did you watch 200 Pounds Beauty before? That one is nice too. And that's an understatement.^^ Hmmm.. if I fell in love with someone's fabricated personality, I think I would have felt betrayed. Being lied to is not really a good thing. We all feel bad when someone lies to us. And fabricating a different personality is more than lying. I'd be totally angry over the guy and I wouldn't be sure if I can love him after that. This is a coincidence because I have just watched an episode of a J-drama that I'm watching. A guy pretended to be rich and going to an elite school just to impress a girl. He pretended to be cool and all that so the girl will fall in love with him. And she did. But the guy couldn't keep lying to the family of the girl so he confessed and that flared up the girl. She immediately broke up with the guy. Turns out he was poor and he only works part-time in a noodle house. But he kept on loving the girl and she was starting to like him. Maybe if that was the case, if that would happen to me, I'd be able to like the guy too if his true personality is nice.^^

Yep. that would be a hard thing for someone to do. I would hate to get to know someone and then find out later, that it was not their true personality that I first adored.

This discussion reminded me of the Sydney Sheldon book i read a few years ago... i forgot the title... but it was about a woman who had three personalities... and this was because of the trauma she endured as a child... very nice story... worthy to be made into a movie... I don't fall in love that easily... so i don't think this will ever happen to me in a million years... aside for that... i am already married... i think i will try to look for this korean movie... sounds very interesting... and i would love to know how it ended...

Answering your main question, It would depend on the situation. Generally, I would say that I wouldnt mind it. If the "fabricated personality" is supposed to feel the same way about me, if it made me happy, then why not, right? Of course as long as I had an idea right from the start that it's bound to end sooner or later. That there wasn't any false hope that there's a chance for "forever". At least for a short amount of time, I was the happiest person on the planet. Also, there's the stipulation that I would never find out if ever there was a deception. With that I would wish for the "illusion" to end on a good note. However, if it was unrequited, well, people cannot go back and forget about it once they have "fallen in love", but if they're just about to fall, or just fell off the "edge" then I think they can try to prevent themselves from falling off the metaphoric cliff or grab on to a "branch" before they hit the bottom, most especially when they know that no one's going to catch them. As for the situation in the movie you mentioned, if I really feel true love for one of the personalities, then Id just have to accept the others. It might be challenging and definitely an interesting setup between me, the one I fell in love with, and the other personalities existing in the same body. We would all have to work for it if it's going to continue. its easier said than done to forget about that fabricated personality that you got to know ~agreed, but why try to forget if there could be a future for the both of you? Havent yet seen the movie, but if it ended on a sad note, well, that's just life. It should really be forget the feeling, and not the person you had those feelings for. Over time, people do move on. That's just what I think anyway and Ill try to watch the film one of these days.

Hello ratyz5! The movie is really interesting. I would love to watch that movie. Going back to your question, it would really be hard for me to decide. I mean, if it's hard to be with the normal person, how much more with the kind of person with multiple personality especially if it has wild and violent side. It would mean danger. I don't want it to happen to me and I think better let the person be medicated.

that movie sounds interesting to me. well, i don't know. if ever i fell in love with a fabricated relationship, that will mean sacrifice. i have to learn to accept his personality problems. but i hope i will not meet the violent one. maybe, helping him get medical and psychological help is my resort.