Who will you choose?

I'll certainly choose my father, I always have many common traits with my father compared to my mother. My mother always talk too much and she didn't even know that she already hurt someone.

I never had the choice to make neither of my parents wanted me, I lived with my grandmother.

I wouldn't want that to happen but if it does, I'd go to my mom. I'm closer with her and I do really appreciate her effort a lot, for taking care of me and my little brother and for always being there. I'm not saying that my father doesn't do the same but I'm just saying that there isn't anything compared to a mother's love.

Very tough question this! hmm I love them both and I never will want to see them apart. If they do separate, god forbid, I think I shall stay a month with my mom and the other month with my dad. I shall keep toggling to and fro like a tennis ball There is no choosing either of them as they both are the same to me. What a dilemma nonetheless!

Hi krisneil, good day to you. Well i think that was a tough question. Well i hope it will not happen to my family, but if ever my parents will be separated, i will not go with them either because i know that if i go with my father my mother will get sad to me and if ever i will go to my mother,my father will get sad too. So i chooce not to go with them because of that reason. In my guess i think that every human being have a right to chooce whether if it's good or not. Here in our country there is so many broken family because of low understanding of their parents which causes for their son to go and abandon. It is really the sad thing in our country. Well that's all my response to your forum discussion entitled " who will you chooce?". Well i hope my i give a good response to your discussion. Thank you! ! ! Happy posting to us and happy earning. . . And good luck to our earning career here in this site mylot. =)

Wow, that is really a tough one. I hope it will never happen to me.

I don't think any child should choose, or even think that they have to. What happened between the parents that caused them to split is not the child's business. They were your parents all those years, and just because they have split up the family doesn't mean that you stop loving them. It's possible to still maintain relationships with them both. I coulc not imagine if my children were forced to choose either me or their Dad, just because of a split doesn't mean that you have to stop loving one or the other. If you're young enough a parent has to take care of you still (ie: food, roof over your head, etc) then the child should go to the parent who can afford to support them till they're old enough to be on their own as a responsible adult. And even with that kind of custody agreement, the child should still spend time with the other parent.