You love someone so much, but never get the same reward

Love, ture love can not be weighted by one's pains. As we know, there is not absolute equity in the world. We can only get the comparative equity. Therefore, when we fall in love with someone, the most important thing is to try our best to love him or her.Then build a comparative equit relationship between the two. To be enjoy the love instead of complaint.

If you are into a relationship and you feel the love you give is not returned to you, think of these two things: is he/she doing the best he/she can for the relationship or he/she is just slacking off and is taking you for granted. Why is it important to realize these things first? You need to know if that person is giving his/her best because you might be overlooking that fact because his/her best differ from the best that you know. It's a matter of individual differences. What if he's/she's giving what she thinks is best but it doesn't put up with the best that you expect, then you might be giving up a person who actually did love you. You'll know if the person is slacking off and taking you for granted because he/she can do the things you expect towards others but not towards your relationship. Now, in cases wherein no matter how much you love the person but she/he cannot return it to you, meaning you're not in a romantic relationship, it's very normal to happen. He/she sees your existence but eyes you in a different way. She/he might be seeing you only as a good friend, a confidant to whom he can share secrets with. I've come to realize that truth back in college. It's actually a painful truth. But come to think of it, possibly that person is not actually meant for you that's why he/she cannot reciprocate the way you feel towards him/her. I believe everyone of us is destined to be with somebody someday and that everything is happening for a reason. :-

Yes this is a very very real life situation. Yet we run after those people who do not reciprocate,but instead if we observe who loves us and live with that person believe me you will be happier and when you become happier then you automaticaly start giving happiness to other also.

yeah it has happened to me a couple of times. at first it was hard to get over it, and i just felt really bitter about the situation. but then after some time, quite a long time actually, i just had to accept the fact that you know, it's not meant to be...