Lovers

Hi Summer, that is a very good question, I have a long distance relationship at the moment it works well for us both but sometimes its as if he only wants to see me for one thing and it hurts, he really understands me and we talk about everything and anything but a lot of the time I think maybe it maybe better if we part...so the question where do we find the 'right' person..personally those whom have are lucky,but there is meant to be someone out there somewhere for everyone..my question is the same as yours 'where'?..littleowl

Well, I think when one marries the wrong person he or she makes a blunder but when they divorce with the hope to find some one more suitable they make even bigger blunder. How can we be sure that this new one is going to be suitable?

I can understand your situation, but watch for the old 'grass ain't always greener situation." I am married to great guy and I do love him, but over the years I have noticed we have less and less in common. I never thought of cheating until his cousin moved in next door to us and I got to know him better. I am high-strung, worry about everything, obsessive compulsive, and a perfectionist. My husband is far from understanding any of my quirks and I figured no one ever would. Come to find out, his cousin is a guy version of me. Even my husband says so. I'm not saying I'm going after the cousin, but we are good friends and it's such a relief for someone to understand me. Because of this I have had my doubts about my marriage. I wonder what it be like to be with a man like him. I don't like thinking this way. My husband has noticed and makes little remarks about his cousin even though nothing has happened and I would never hurt him. He sees the bond we can't hide and I hate it, yet I can't bring myself to stay away because I need it.

i am not get married,so for your question i should choose more cautions,and best wishes for you to find the one suit you best!