when will u decide to marry with him/her?

China
March 17, 2009 9:31am CST
one of my friend married with her husband and they just knew each other about 2 months. so quickly. someone will take several years to make an decison to marry with others. what's the reason for you to marry with him or her? how long you think is enough to know each other well?
4 responses
@enciel (368)
• Philippines
17 Mar 09
wow that is fast 2 months and they got married? anyway it's a case to case basis, maybe your friend already knew his husband long before? like a classmate or old friend? maybe that's why it only took 2 months? well for me i can't tell for sure but if i feel that this person is trustworthy and i feel comfortable around me, and my gut is telling me he is the one then i guess i will go for it. (not for 2 months though lol i am way too conservative XD)
@enciel (368)
• Philippines
17 Mar 09
ohh i see then that's why she knew him for a year or so. i am glad for your friend though it's not easy to found someone true these days.
• China
17 Mar 09
they are colleagues and worked togethre for one year. before they mnarried, she fall in love with other person, after they were parted, she and her husband loved, just 2 months later, they married. maybe she found the Right persone finially!
@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
17 Mar 09
Personally, I think that it's different for each person. Some people won't take as much time to get married as others. My fiance and I got engaged after only being together for 2 months. I think it really all depends on each person, as we are all different.
• China
17 Mar 09
i think you are right. maybe when you meet the Mr Right. time, place etc wont be important. the most importan is that you find the right person. wish you have a happy life with your husband :)
@dodo19 (47336)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
18 Mar 09
Thanks a lot. I hope we have a happy life together, as well.
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
17 Mar 09
I think it depends on the couple. My ex said he wanted to marry me after a few short weeks, but then broke up with me after a three months LOL. guess he didn't want to marry me after all, good things I didn't marry him.
• Philippines
17 Mar 09
am having a family already & got 3kids too but were not yet married for 5yrs. the reason why because am still waiting for my visa. hopefully my visa will come soon so we can marry % live as a normal relationship.
• China
17 Mar 09
wish you get your visa soon. good luck!