Are you and your partner live like friends?
@sweetychandu7 (1120)
India
March 17, 2009 11:41pm CST
Many of them live like friends in starting years when they married.going on they misunderstandings will arise,doubts will arise and so many questions will arise from their partners and so many answers to convince them.can anyone tell what is best way or any tips to those who are getting married to enjoy their lives overcoming such type of doubts or misunderstandings with the partner?
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@daliaj (5674)
• India
18 Mar 09
Yes, me and my husband live like friends. Sometimes we fight each other, we argue and debate each other, but soon we will forget that all. We make fun of each other. 
I think to make a good friendship, you should never me demanding. You should consider each other and take care of each other. If you don't like something, be open and tell that to your partner so that he will try not to repeat it again.
@sweetychandu7 (1120)
• India
18 Mar 09
thats pretty good and i like your way of living and as you told never demand or force the partner is really good and thinkable.telling facts what we dislike rreally helps a lot i guess to live hspppily and if we discuss evry thing or topic definitely we will become not ony friends we'll be inspiration many others whom we known.
@ljames8585 (129)
• Canada
18 Mar 09
this is how we live half the time. It makes for silly arguments that no one cares about, but also a wonderful relationship.
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@sweetychandu7 (1120)
• India
18 Mar 09
thats really wonderful dear to be good best friends and like partners that no one is more than the other.being like PARTners would makes eachother happy and will have freedom to do things which is useful to both in future as well as for children.i am looking ahead to save money from now onwards to enjoy the future along with my girl friend.does it makes any sense saving from now onwards?
@nikhil_sun (576)
• India
1 Apr 09
Definitely yes.I believe that friendship is the foundation for any relationship.Be it the relation between father and child or mother and child or any relation for that matter.Hence the same is the case with my life partner.I think of my life partner as my greatest friend.This enables to create a feeling of love and trust between us.
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@sweetychandu7 (1120)
• India
1 Apr 09
Thats really great that you both olive like best friends and its a luck yaar.Many are getting divorced or having extra martial affairs etc.But few like you are being like friends and living like good pair so that the neighbours can also change by looking at you both dear.Take care dear of your lovedone, your wife and have a happy life to you both dear.Enjoy
@angel_kaycee (1112)
• Philippines
18 Mar 09
yes i do live with my partner like friends, very much. my boyfriend is my ever loyal best friend. i had no other friend that i have shared everything about me except him. he knows me with every single detail. and he's the same with me. we share a lot of things with each other that sometimes i treat him more of a best friend rather than as my boyfriend. we share a lot of crazy times, talk about hilarious things,even laugh all day. and of course he always lends his shoulder i can cry on my worse days. he is my adviser, my brother, my best friend, my supporter, a fan and a lover.
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@sweetychandu7 (1120)
• India
18 Mar 09
same to you my dear i alos live with my girl friend but not together.we also share everything we know and also on what we don't know hahha.we will fight eachother regularly and will get convinced eachother easily and that helps us to get affectionate eachother easily.saying sorry and mingling eachother is really getting enjoyable in my matters.last but not least that she is my good and best partner i have ever got in my life (we aren't married yet) also my well wisher like a brother,fights like my sister,makes me enjoys a lot when we met.there are so many things to say if i starts to say....
@ljames8585 (129)
• Canada
18 Mar 09
We live as best friends it seems. But we also do little things for each other everyday to show how much we love each other and appreciate them. I start all my notes to him as to my husband, my friend, my lover, because he really is everything to me, and I am not sure what I would do without him, like I don't know what I would do without my father.
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@sweetychandu7 (1120)
• India
18 Mar 09
Thats good and awesome while studying your reply friend.Exactly my girl said same words to me as you told.once she scolded when i gave all my money to one of my friends thats it!she started scolding that her father done like me (giving surity) and finally he used to pay for his friend.thats why she also told as you said and i think a girl might expects same like her father did to her.that means the girls are same minded when comes IN LOVE.that pretty rare for me to hear and i'm happy i got a girl friend who exactly thinks like you.one more thing i just came after meeting my girl friend.thanks for your response.
@sweetychandu7 (1120)
• India
1 Apr 09
Good good and that makes you very good and tight relationship between you too dear.Sharing the things between each other is the best part as my point of view because it leads us to very good understanding and makes very good impression fro others too dear.so keep sharing all your problems and happies and make your relationship alive.keep smiling and have a wonderful life with your lovedone.
@kanghuan33 (49)
• China
1 Apr 09
what you said very right,a lt of husband and wife more like like friends.Get along with harmonious look to outsiders as if ,in fact their marriage has been failure. with more or less thing,they do not trust each other.i think husband and wife should do more communication and separate for sometime.so that they will one day feel very sad about the lack of,they cheris theirs marriage more.
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@sweetychandu7 (1120)
• India
1 Apr 09
Getting separate will makes them pain right and their kids too dear if they have.Because the kids don't know and they think that mom is not good or dad is not good thats why they got separated like that isn't it? I suggest to be like friends like sharing,fighting,convincing,loving,caring,protecting,daring,everything which i am not getting i am y mind but many more things dear.Please don't get separate and don't become the discussion between others okay! i think it will be bad for your life too and your parents also.Think out once.
