What do you do when you feel alone and betrayed?
By yogeshdhusa
@yogeshdhusa (2236)
India
March 18, 2009 3:03am CST
Hi All, Today i am feeling alone and betrayed from life, Life has not given any thing good to me , every thing has a bad chapter and dont want to recall those things. because of that i dont want to remember good thing as well. want to end the life and cant see any open door. want to end this metal harasment. dont know what to do. help me. i dont want my family to suffer again because of me. help..
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12 responses
@ktosea (2026)
• China
18 Mar 09
Hi Yoge,you don't think of the things in you life in this way anymore,no matter how life betryed you,what bad things happened to you,still you have to move on,if you think life is not worth to live anymore,all will be over,it's not a even a solution to do that,you think your family will be better without you,no,my friend.I sometimes also think in your way and blamed my fate or the harsh reality but it doesn't help.I also feel oppressed and frustrated because I have do nothing good to my family till now,but I let myself have faith on me,you should have faith on yourself too.if you see the reality with a positive view of point,it will compensate some day,you just have to wait and work hard for it.
good luck to you and be happy
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@yogeshdhusa (2236)
• India
18 Mar 09
Hi Ktosea, Thanks i do understand but their should be a faith and proof that life is on my side, every time i collect my strength to face the situation, new issue comes up. every time i am fighting but no use I want a break. Live without fight and worry atleast a single day. lets see what life bring for me .... thanks a lot for the encouraging words
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@ktosea (2026)
• China
18 Mar 09
life is harsh for most people in the word,what you are suffering is what most people are experiencing right now,you solved one thing but another comes up,that's what life is,so please do not feel desperately because many are in your shoes and life has to move on.everything will be ok some day
@victorywp (3524)
• United States
18 Mar 09
it's pointless to end a life since life is so short. why want to shorten a short life? avoiding the reality by ending a life is not the way but facing the reality by searching solutions should be the way.
everything happened with good & bad in it. try to be positive & think from the good sides. i still remember there's one person who lost her legs but she thanked God because she still has her hands.
i know you felt alone & betrayed from life because you received nothing good in life, furthermore it happens that your family have to suffer with you. usually, this is how i do when i'm feeling down. i pray with a sincere heart & He ease my pain, later i see an open door.
i always believe that God will make a way where there seems to be no way.:)
@yogeshdhusa (2236)
• India
18 Mar 09
Hi Victory, i do belive that god will open the doors and many doors. but when i have lost patience .. thanks for the responce and help, "god forgive me but i really need your help."
@bbsr13 (4196)
• India
18 Mar 09
Hello,Jogesh! You are so depressed now for being alone.Is this the cause of your depression?Or has anybody betrayed you?Why worry?Take everything lightly,think positive and do your works judiciously you will comeout of your depression.In such times you need good company.Vent your feelings and emotions to people close to you.Verbelise your problems.The more you bottle up,the more you will find it difficult to find hope.Avoid polarising your thoughts and try to meditate.Meditation will be the best cure when feeling loneliness and betrayal.Finally laughaway the troubles,then only life will be easy to live.thanx.
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@yogeshdhusa (2236)
• India
18 Mar 09
Hi bbsr, Thanks i will meditate. my question is that i am doing every thing which can be done but still the result are not good, doing every thing still people around are not happy and satisfied. I am working for other, i am trying to keep my family and my loved once happy . i know when you expect someting you get hurt. I dont want any thing but love and careing. let see people areound understand this... thanks a lot i will meditate.
@jlamela (4897)
• Philippines
18 Mar 09
Actually all people suffer depression and frustrations, but these things shall passed. Just pray and offer your troubles to God. Every time I feel alone and betrayed I just poured everything to my personal journal, writing is a good relief and a breather. Then I go to church and pray or sometimes just sit there, after I can release my problems it seems I am a renewed person and fresh again.
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@yogeshdhusa (2236)
• India
18 Mar 09
Hi jlamela, Thanks, before i used to write and think i should start it again. I am trying to pray but unable to- searching words and trying to understand what i really want. thanks a lot for the reply
@septemberxue (138)
• China
19 Mar 09
when i feel alone and betrayed ,i usually pour out to my friends.i think this is very important.
@lingzi (567)
• China
19 Mar 09
yogeshdhusa,i don't konw what's wrong with you,but you can take a rest and have a journey ,maybe you will feel better. no matter what's happened, tomorrow is another day.
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
19 Mar 09
I don't believe I have ever felt alone and betrayed since having become an adult. When a child I did feel that way often, but that was due to circumstances beyond my control. My parents would have failed Parenting 101. I resolved to take better care of myself as soon as I got old enough to go out on my own...yes, and I did, too.
I am sorry you feel bad. I hope you feel better soon.
@shirley183 (252)
• China
19 Mar 09
I know everyone in the world will under lots of presure from the life and the work and ect,so yogeshdhusa cheer up,that's not a big deal,however we must face it.everytime i felt that i just gone to do some sports which can let me exhausted,like squash or play wii, then i need slept,and i just felt nothing when i wakeup.
@kimutaku (145)
• China
19 Mar 09
hi,here~
If you can't find any open dorr, why dont you try to find an opened window?
There is not only one way 4 your life.
plz try to forget all these bad things, someone told me that: Life will give you everything you are looking for.try to find the wonderful side of life,plz.
@bbtort (47)
• Singapore
19 Mar 09
if you have read "The Road Less Travelled" the first sentence is "Life is hard". I never forgot this. Life is a path of ups and downs. For without the bad things, we will never learn to appreciate the good times. The tough times is to prepare us to enjoy the good. The evil people we meet is to ope our eyes to cherish the true friends in our life. What you are going through now many of us would have already experienced it.
Remember, everything happens for a reason. The reason we may not see or know now. But in time to come we will know why. For i have observed this in my own life. So take heart. Be strong. Do not run away or hide or try to esccape. Instead, stand up to it and face it. Acknowleddge it and find a solution to it. Be positive, think positive. Focus on the solution and not the problem. Weigh your options and move on from there. It's not going to be easy. But time will heal you.