Do you feel embarrassed when you say "sorry" to your spouse?
By candy811123
@candy811123 (334)
China
March 18, 2009 4:44am CST
I think if I made mistake I should say "sorry" to others.But sometimes I feel embarrassed when I say "sorry" to my husband eventhough I know it is my fault.
I would rather to do something others to make up my mistake,such as cooking a big dinner for him or buy gift to him.
How about you? Would you like to share with me?
Good luck and happy mylotting.
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6 responses
@SearchOfLove (20)
• India
18 Mar 09
I think if it is my mistake then there is no shame for me to say sorry.Instead of buying gifts or cooking good foods and accepting other ways I will prefer to say sorry to my hubby.Because it is well said that," Apologising does not mean that U are wrong and the other is right.It only means that U value the reltionship much more than Ur ego." So I think it is very good to accepting your mistakes because to err is human.Likewise pencils have erasers on their head.Nobody is perfect in this world. So without any hesitation go ahead.......
@kawalnarang (1095)
• Trinidad And Tobago
18 Mar 09
I believe u are 100 percent correct ,, u think so great,, there is no shame ,saying sorry,, I do it ,, and save the time and stress,, kawal said soooooooooo
@med889 (5941)
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18 Mar 09
When I feel I have done something wrong then I say Sorry without any embarassement. And why should I feel so? If I deserved a bit of scolding then what? I better say Sorry instead of sitting aside with my ego. If you say sorry then autonatically if he does something wrong he will say. I say sorry then I do things to please him too like cooking, buying him something or being more romantic...
@candy811123 (334)
• China
18 Mar 09
I know your opinion.Thanks for your sharing.Good luck and happy mylotting.
@mymytri (2030)
• India
19 Mar 09
No.I don't feel like that.If i did anything wrong i directly tell him what really happen and i don't do that again.I won't say sorry to him also..Just regret for what have happen.He understands me and tell me.."OK..Try never do that again".I would also do something to make him surprise and happy .Happy mylotting..
@achinthya (1216)
• India
18 Mar 09
saying sorry doesn't meant that we have become small so I say sorry and tries to make up for that...but I don't buy gifts
@Ritchelle (3790)
• Philippines
18 Mar 09
i do exactly the same thing. no sorrys. just trying to make up in other ways.
@sambarwell (173)
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18 Mar 09
If it is something I have generally done wrong, I can. But if it is something I have done wrong that I should be able to do right, such as, general task, which may make me look incompetent, then I find it harder.
