true friend

China
March 18, 2009 8:32am CST
I am a little diffidence girl. and I have a very extroversion friend. we are best friend. because we have so many sameness thing. and she gives me the most help on my life. but there is a little hard thing. she has many other friend. extroversion as same as her. when we all people do some thing together. I often have sad emotion suddenly. then I don't want talk to anybody. but they are so happy . so I think I am a outlier. I konw it's something wrong for me. I try to change my inturned. but just change a little. Ok, thank you for "look" my whimper. I just want to say it out.
2 responses
@Archie0 (5652)
18 Mar 09
Well these things happen many times in our life when we have some best pals in our life and we dont like sharing them much. i think you dont like it when you got whole group to be with you all and then somethings make you feel inferior? try to be more positive towards their feelings and gestures. and dont worry friends are always forever. :)
• China
18 Mar 09
yeap. thank for your response. I know I must change myself more positive. thank you very much!
@abanerji (1026)
• India
18 Mar 09
you are reserved as well as very possesive about your friend. when too many people join your group you don't feel comfortable because of your quiet and introvert nature. your friend who is extrovert mingles with others. sometimes, it may also happen that you feel they are over looking you. as you are possesive about your friend you feel sad that she is interacting more with others. this is not a grave problem, you can handle very well. you just need to become a little more freindly and trust your friend. if you are the best pals then her talking with others would not harm your relationship.