Have you ever benn hurt by your (best) friend? How does it feels?

It seems she is no ordinary friend but someone that has penetrated the core of your heart otherwise you will not be hurt by her action towards you. It may be an eye opener for you to read your own heart and do not take this warning lightly as the hurt that you are feeling now may be a blessing in disguise and needs further nurturing. You may be in love with your supposedly best friend. The lovebug is slowly seeping inside you without you realizing it. Please see Dr Love, he knows best which virus is troubling you.

hmmmm hmmmm is it over i mean are you guys ok now if so then well good. maybe you two should bump each others head then lmao sorry just kidding. then try to avoid such jokes again in the future my friend.:-)

A few of my friends has hurt me in one way or another and I tell them how I feel as soon as we are alone. I have never been in the same situation wherein I was hurt really bad. But the only you can do is to apologize for what you did and if you really are hurt with how she talked to you, you should tell her and ask her and if she really meant the things she said.

Well, I've been reading all the posts in this discussion, and it looks like things have been developing a bit between you and your friend. I'm glad you realised your true feelings for oneanother. But from some of the things you wrote it doesn't sound very hopeful. I'm sorry if it didn't work out for you; unrequited love is a horrible thing. I hope that it doesn't affect your friendship too much, although it's understandable that it might. Maybe one day things will change, you never know what will happen in life. To answer your question, yes, I have been hurt by a best friend. We were friends for a long time, then our lives went different ways and we weren't so close, but still saw eachother sometimes. Then a few years ago there were a few times when she got drunk and told me some 'truths' about what she thought of some of my other friends and members of my family. They were nasty things (just based on her opinions) and I was shocked. I don't know why she said these things, it came out of some bad feeling somewhere. Since then we've lost touch, (mainly as I was too upset to return her calls). I do still miss her sometimes, but it really upset me to hear her insulting other people who are close to me, and I'd be worried that she'd do it again.

I'm sorry you got hurt especially by your best friend. I have been hurt by my best friend. She didn't invite me to her wedding or even tell me about it until a few months later. I was devistated. She had been my maid of honor in my first wedding and I always told her everything before anyone, including my family. She has inly recently explained to me why she did things that way but it still hurts 3 years later. If you and she have made up and things are back to normal, you shoukd try to let it go and realize that she just said those things out of anger or being hurt. If you can't let it go, talk to her about it. Good luck to you.

To me losing a best mate felt like someone had taken a short dagger, heated it untill it was white hot and rammed it straight into my confidence, emotional stability, and trust in my remaining friends all at the same time. Advice: Get a paralelle best friend, I allways keep now two so that if one ges nuts and I need support I have the other for advice etc.