Is there something wrong with women calling first?
By n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
March 19, 2009 6:59am CST
I think women should always wait for a man to call or text them first. To justify this action, ranging from wanting to say hi or asking a question, favor to thinking that it would make the man feel better if he receives a call from her. Would you initiate the call first or would you wait for his call? Have a nice day to all of you!
6 responses
@Chengyueyao (32)
• China
20 Mar 09
I don't think there is something wrong with woman calling first, though people are likely to encourage man to call first. As a girl I myself, I won't shrink back when there is a need to do so yet I waiting for boys call me first. Self-contradictory, perhaps~
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
Chengyueyao, well you have your own mind, you have your own self to project, and you have also your will. Don't feel your scared you just make your own thing girl! Some men likes women who has their own style. Have a nice day to you again!Keep on smiling!
@Chengyueyao (32)
• China
23 Mar 09
May you have a nice day too! Though my words made you laugh, while I can hardly laugh cause everyone is saying that I am such a girl with a strong mind that few boys dare to date me!!Jeasus! I'm just a girl go after my dream firmly, but my tinny achievments in study and associations seems really scary!
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
23 Mar 09
Well there is nothing wrong to call first if your only asking something it's only friendship. But if you have feelings and calling him out then finding out that his not interested that hurts. Don't you think it's just a matter of feelings if he doesn't call you his not interested on you. Have a nice day to you!
@koikoikeiji (356)
• Japan
19 Mar 09
Why will I have to wait if I will only ask something? I dont see anything wrong about that. Now if the guy does not like the girl then he ahs his right to not answer the call or not text back. Calling or texting first does not mean anything if you are not going to put any story behind tha call or behind the text. So dont jump to the conclusion it is justa text, right?
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
23 Mar 09
I like that koikoikeiji, yes it depends sometimes with a guy points of view, it's easy for them to know if a girl likes them when girls calls them. But men should not also make a malice, or conclude especially you just want friendship, and you call up by asking something or important. Anyway have a nice day to you!
@Llonorra22 (1150)
• Philippines
21 Mar 09
In my situation right now I'm just waiting for his messages and his calls. Zcan't demand on him anyway.
@kirrikat (10)
• South Africa
19 Mar 09
A woman should be able to call a man first if she feels she wants to.Why do we have to wait for men to call first?Is that not a little primitive.We women know what we want and have no problem to go out and get it.If you sit a home waiting for a man to call first ,you will wait your life away.If i am interested in a guy I will call him.I will not wait for him to call me.He can tell me if he likes me or not,or if he likes the fact that i called him or not.What do I have to lose?Honestly we need to move away from the stone-ages.Life is fast and there is no time to waste by waiting for a call that may or may not come.What do you think?Let me know.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
23 Mar 09
I like that I respect you way of thinking kirrikat. But don't you think that you will know the guys who really like you if they call you up, then guys who doesn't call you up cause they have someone who they find interesting. I know and do understand your point of view. But the feeling of disappointment that hurts a lot. Tell me I am still on the ages of stone age, but men still like challenges. I hope you can also understand my point of view Kirrikat. Anyway have a nice day to you!
@Xenosaiyan (66)
• United States
19 Mar 09
It's quite simple, I'm a guy and I never talk to girls. Is that crazy or what? So, in that case there was this girl who walked up to me and said "hi" and started hitting on me. So, my first reaction was, oh my gosh, girls shouldn't be hitting on guys. But to be honest with you, those shy guys need girls to make the call first.
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
23 Mar 09
That is fine I know when I was young I was the shy type but I like girls who call me up especially when I feel interested, but the girls who I don't like I really don't don't to them. I just don't like girls who concludes that I am interested with them. Have a nice day to you!
