the making of good date...
By pinky_laces
@pinky_laces (77)
Philippines
March 19, 2009 8:08am CST
i am teching highschool students and this topic is included on the book we are using. the topic is "the making of a good date"
there are some ways that are stated in the book and this caught my attention... it says:
" Choose someone who is at the same or about the same stage of dating as you are. When you choose someone who is approximately along your dating road, you can both learn and grow together with as a little pain and embarasssment as possible..."
Does this mean that if you're a first time dater, as much as possible, you also need to choose sometone who is a first time dater too?
4 responses
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
19 Mar 09
From what that thing said that what it sounds, like but I don't think it's true. I think you can date someone who has dated people before if it's your first date. Everyone starts somewhere and I don't think it makes a difference if they are in the same stage or not. As long as you both have the same idea of what you want from the relationship I think it would be good.
@NIECIE21 (365)
• United States
19 Mar 09
I agree with this book as well. While you dont have to look for someone who has never dated if you have not dated, I would advise from dating someone who has dated a lot if you are new to dating. This way you are on somewhat equal footing and will be able to learn about dating together where as someone who has more experience may not enjoy the little things that come with just starting to get out there and start dating.
@lologirl2021 (5542)
• United States
19 Mar 09
I agree with your book on this one. I think you should choose somsone who is right along the same stage of dating that you are. Me and my boyfriend when we started dating we were on toal different levels and to this day we still fight about what we want to do. I like to do things that he doesnt and sometimes he wants to go out with friends and i say no i want to go out with you and you need to choose who is more important in your life. Then he makes a sacrifice he went out to dinner with me and then out with his friends later that night and that worked out fine as long as you know how to settle things everything usually works out in the end. Good discussions for high schoolers. Enjoy Mylotting
