Is It Proof Of Love ?
By jess07
@jess07 (319)
5 responses
@ponganne (19)
• Australia
19 Mar 09
I honestly believe that jealousy is an ugly emotion which stems from insecurity and lack of trust. A person could only enter into a relationship armed with trust and faith in the other person. Excessive jealousy can destroy a relationship. It will be hard to constantly reassure the other person that he or she is the only one.
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@blueunicorn (2401)
• United States
19 Mar 09
It is definitely exhausting trying to "prove" you love the other person.
@silverjam (969)
• United States
19 Mar 09
I guess it's normal sometimes to get jealous as it adds spices so they say in a relationship. However too much and excessive display of such emotion is unhealthy and poses threat to any relationship. And to the extent of treating the other one as "property" not a loved one. An overly jealous partner tend to rationalized his jealous actions as act of love and protection. But real love knows the difference between obsession and freedom. In fact, in some extreme cases true love means letting go of the other if it's a one-sided love affair.
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@blueunicorn (2401)
• United States
19 Mar 09
I do not think jealousy is proof of love. I personally think it comes from insecurity.
@daneg33 (1128)
• Canada
19 Mar 09
I think jealousy comes from insecurity. If someone is insecure and not confident in themselves, they will always be jealous, because they are sure that they can't hold onto what they have, and yes, in a way, that makes the other person a "possession".
@jess07 (319)
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20 Mar 09
Hi
Yes you ar quite right I tend to sometims be jealous but i suppose that comes from the past of my relationship.
In a way i don't think it's really jealous, i just like to know what he's doing, who with and if possible keep an eye on him.
I wont let him do the same thing twice!
Thanksfor your response !
Jess
@nikhilbhatia163 (33)
• India
23 Mar 09
I think it's a normal thing as in many lovers one of them tries to know what the opposite one is doing so as to be protective and also to be upto date about there lover. Ya sometimes they get much of jealous which is bad..