Landlord, tenant and neighbor relations

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I put this under relationships because all regular interactions are in their own ways relationships. As many of you might know, I lived with my mother for more than a year as her caretaker. I moved back into my apartment at the end of January. While I was gone, a former neighbor from the house next door moved into the unit under mine. From day one, she started complaining whenever my daughter had guests and would follow my daughter whenever she went downstairs to do laundry. She had no problem having regular get-togethers of her family and friends, but my daughter seemed to be forbidden to have a life. She would even have HER mother call me at MY mother's house to complain about it (I still owe a kick in the slats to whoever gave them MY mother's number). It didn't matter how early it was, my daughter having company was a problem for her. After I moved back, I was in the basement with the landlady who was showing me where I could store my stuff. She wouldn't even let us in the basement until we told her who we were, despite the fact that she doesn't rent the basement and that's where the laundry is. She sat on the stairs listening to every word we said and commenting when she felt she could, despite it being a private conversation. My landlady made it clear that the basement was for both units and that I could store some of my inherited items there. She is the landlady's niece. Her grandmother and other aunt are co-owners as well. Well, when she learned that I had a key to the basement (as is my right as a tenant here), SHE changed the locks and for over a month has refused to give anyone a key to the basement. She claims I cannot store my things down there because she's afraid 1)someone might steal her items, 2) storing my stuff would create a liability to the landlords for insurance purposes (despite the basement being lined with her things she was storing). She told my landlady (who lives next door) that she didn't want anyone down there, that she wanted the basement to herself. She kept promising to give a key to them, but to date never has. Today, I could hear yelling and tracked the voices to the landlady's husband yelling at this girl's live-in boyfriend (who isn't on the lease) about having the basement door locked and still having their lock on the door in violation of the lease. They were yelling at each other with boyfriend stating "this is unacceptable", "I am a good tenant" (wrong, hun - you're not on the lease), "I've done nothing illegal" (wrong again - you violated the lease by keeping other tenants from doing laundry and accessing their circuit breakers). The landlord's husband, meanwhile, was growing angrier by the minute and was using more and more vile language, his face was purple, and he was telling this boyfriend what part of him he could kiss. Boyfriend followed him home next door, refusing to take "no" for an answer. I was worried because the husband has had bypass surgery twice - once around 15 years ago and again three years ago. She, the little witch downstairs, thinks because she's family, she has carte blanche and can do anything without anyone saying anything. When she lived next door, another rental owned by the three sisters, she filed complaints against literally ever single tenant who lived there while she did. She called the police constantly, woke people up during the night with her complaining, got people evicted, and apparently felt that surge of power that effective nagging can give you when others buy into it. Well, I haven't bought into it and I've done nothing wrong and neither has my daughter. I know when she gets home from work, the fecal matter is going to hit the fan. I've already told my landlady's husband that if she continued to attack me and my daughter, I would file harassment charges against her. She locked my emergency exit so I can't use it because she wants the space behind it for storage. That's an exit the city knows about. Yet, she is afraid I might steal something of her precious belongings. Never mind that I've lived here for over seven years and have yet, before her, to have anyone complain about anything missing from their property. The tenant immediately preceding her even left the downstairs door open in the emergency exit to make sure I had no obstruction in case I needed to get out. Not once did I ever go into the stairs or into their house - I had no need to. This one, however, treats me like a common thief - despite the fact that she has one uncle who is in and out of prison for theft, a cousin recently arrested for attempted murder, another cousin in and out of jail for illegal behaviors of one sort or another. I'm the potential criminal even as her family is FULL of them!! I'm not leaving - I've been here since September 2001 and I plan to stay. My guy friend is my landlady's son. I like being next door to him. I don't like HER being under me. SHE is in violation of the lease - SHE needs to go! Anyway, I needed to vent. Have you ever had to deal with a neighbor from hell? What did they do? What did YOU do?