How old were you the first time you fell in love?

I would like to find out how he's been but I don't think we'll ever connect again. However, I did find his son on FaceBook.

Hi Gtargirl! Well nothing wrong with that. Do you know what happened to him through the years? Would you want to know? Take care, groetjes.

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haha..when I was young I really didn't know any better. I thought if I will fall in love, I will get pregnant and I want to finish school first. haha..But seriously, I know myself very much and knowing how passionate I am, I am not sure if I can handle a serious relationship at that time. So, I decided to just wait for awhile. But sometimes, I wished I decided otherwise. lovelots..faith

Hi Faith! Sounds to me like you made a wise decision. I got married when I was 18. That did not bring me much. 9 years later I was divorced with two little children. But, I can understand the curiosity. If I were to do it over again, believe me, I would not have gotten into a relationship before I finished my school. Knowing what I know now, I would have done a lot of things different. But that's life I guess. Learn from mistakes and move on. Well, I better get some sleep! It is already 5:20 AM!!! And I wanted to go to bed early. Not this early though. Well take care, sweet dreams and have a nice day. Greetings and Blessings.Wishing you all the best.

Hi Faith! How are you? Hope all is well. Scared of Love and what it can do to you. I remember that feeling. I still think about my first (and others later), hoping they turned out well and are happy. I was never very lucky when it came to love. But the first always seems to be the closest in my memory. Thank-you for commenting. Take care.Greetings.

That is so sweet! That really makes me happy. So, true love does exist. Don't hear that very often, you are lucky. Both of you are lucky. Wishing you both all the best. Take care. Thank-you for commenting.

Hahaha! Even if your boy friend was to read it, it was before his time. And you are right, the times were different then. We could be in love without the fiscal stuff the kids go through now a days. It was more an emotional thing. I think a lot of kids now a days don't even know this feeling. It is so sad. That is so great when the boy rather talks to you, than to the popular girl. I can imagine that was a great feeling. Do you ever wonder what became of him? Thank-you for commenting. Take care.

Yeah, he's with someone now. He's somewhere in the world away from my place. He doesn't look as good as I remember though, I saw his photos in friendster and facebook. I never bothered to say HI because I'm pretty sure he has forgotten me. But that's okay, I have a wonderful man now and much much cuter. Hahaha! Hope my boyfriend reads this! hahahahaha!

Hahaha! Yes he would like that. Isn't that funny, how the memory makes the person look so good. I remember a boy I thought was so cute, and I thought I was is love. Then I saw him again after a couple of months and I was so disappointed. He was not anything like I had created him in my mind. hahaha! I am happy you have a great guy now, and he is cute. That is great. I wish you all the best. Take care.

That is nice to hear. You are still friends and respect each other. Thank-you for commenting. Take care.

yeah.. that's the most important... respect.. :) even though something happened, we just need to respect each others decision.. :D take care also.. :)

That is sad. He is a relative, that does not make things easy. Maybe better to move on? Good luck. Wishing you all the best. Thank-you for commenting. Take care.

Well that is nice to hear. That must mean you found Mr.Right. Good for you! Wishing you all the best. Thank-you for commenting. Take care.

Well yes it is funny how emotions take over. When your young, it just all seems to be right. And for young people, it is not just puppy love. It is real, but hard to understand. The feeling of being in Love, that is great to remember. Thank-you for commenting. Take care.

Lost your senses, that is true love! When your in Love why make things complicated. It just happens. Too bad it was a one side love. Still nice to remember, the feeling of being in love. Thank-you for commenting. Take care.

That is so cute! 6 years old. I think that would have taken a lot of courage. And when you asked her to be your girlfriend, did she say yes right away? Thank-you for commenting. Take care.

Congratulations! You are not late, you were just waiting for the right one. Happy to hear you found what you were waiting for. Wishing you both all the best. Take care. Thank-you for commenting.

I am happy for you! Being with the love of your life is a treasure for sure! Yes, when we are young we tend to fall in love. But, it is not always the love of your life. Somehow the first love seems to be different then all the others. Wishing you all the best. Welcome to MyLot! Thank-you for commenting. Take care, have a nice day.

Yes, that is not easy to find when someone has a common name. I was 15 as well. And I left to get married when I was 18 with someone else. And when I was 27/28 I looked him up. I found one very jealous wife! After a couple of years he said he was going to leave his wife, because she was not good for his daughter out a previous marriage.(I was already long divorced) I believed him. That was the first time we did it, hahaha! From 15 to +/- 30, that is a long wait. Then I went on with my life and started a cafe in Belgium. My best friend and my boy friend got close because I had no time. Not enough for fowling around like a teenager. Then one day I went to visit my parents in Holland and the telephone rang. It was his wife, she knew nothing about him wanting to leave. She thought I had an affair with him and was very angry. I calmly said it was not me, it was my best friend. hahahah! Well it was. I gave her the telephone number and address of my best friend.(I really loved doing that, hahaha!) Well that relationship was over and he was back with his wife. And of course I never wanted anything more to do with my so called best friend! I have no respect for best friends taking away my boyfriend. And I did not know his wife and him were still together. So my best friend got what she deserved. What comes around goes around. Well what I want to say is: I wish I had not started with him again. I wish I had not looked him up. I should have left it the way it was. That special feeling I had for him is gone. Now I only feel sorry for him, he never got his life together. I still feel for him, but not like I used to. Take care, have a nice day. Thank-you for commenting.