Do you ever fear that your man might end up with someone else?

I do worry sometimes, cos my boyfriend is gorgeous and honestly could get any girl he wanted. However, there are so many little things that really make me realise what a fantastic relationship we have, and that it is me he wants to be with. The other thing that worries me is that we are in a long distance relationship, so I worry he'll get fed up of the distance and find someone closer to where he lives. But this is only a minor worry, and stems from a previous relationship I was in that was long distance where he broke up with me cos he didn't see me enough :S

Yes, see I've always had trust issues from past relationships. I am over them now that my husband and I are together, but I still think of this sometimes. I think sometimes how I believe he deserves better than me. Or I see pretty girls and I'm like wow, what if he left me for someone who looks better than me. He tells me I never have to worry, I'm the most beautiful girl he's ever seen and he doesn't want anyone else. And...I believe him! :)

hi, as a human being its very natural to have such thought but I trust my husband and believe that he won't do it .....trust and obey thats the only waywhich can lead to happy life.

hi markroderick, i am fresh from a break-up just a week ago. and when we were still together, yes i have this fear and that made me very possessive of him. now that we broke up (he dumped me) ... i fear all the more now that i am thinking he will surely end up with someone else. i cannot imagine it yet. maybe i am just bitter but the thought of it makes me insane.

there r times when i feel this is not working out and that i could be haper with someone othere than him. but i love him and that what makes you what to work it out. keep trying to make each othere happy do nice stuff with each other and talk things out. there r always going to be people who r going to try and take that away from you. if you love um make it work it does not just happen to turn out rigth for you all the time. anything that is worth having is worth figthing for.

I of course have thought about it.. But I really dont feel like he would end up with someone else.. My husband and I have a fantastic marriage.. I guess its just hard to actually think that he could ever be with someone else