Do you feel like your husband doesn't like you at all?
By nilanym
@nilanym (184)
Philippines
March 20, 2009 10:44am CST
When I check on my hubbies profile on any fun sites like friendster or facebook. I don't see my picture alone or with him or with our kids. I feel like he doesn't like me or maybe I'm just ugly... I feel hurt inside. :( The only pictures he uploaded on the albums are the picture of himself, his friends, our babies and his hobbies.. But no picture of me... I'm kinda jealous. It feels like he has no room for me.
4 responses
@gicolet (1702)
• United States
20 Mar 09
It's important that my husband and I like each other. I can not stay with a man whom I just love for the sake of just being with him for security purpose, or that feeling of belonging to someone, or for the children, or for any other reason but like him. I will have an emotional grudge with my husband if I find out that he doesn't like me anymore and I have to have some type of assurance that he does like me. Your husband's not posting any picture of yours online is not a good sign. He could be presenting himself as having good friends and good children but not having a good wife. Sorry but I have to be honest with you cause my ex did that too and we're now divorced. Love is not enough. The realization of loving someone is from liking that person in the first place. You and your husband should enjoy each other. If you feel that he doesn't like you anymore then it only means that he doesn't enjoy you anymore and is looking for something else. Open your eyes and don't just see what's going on but see what's going wrong and do something about it before it's too late. Take care.
@luvmysons (497)
• United States
20 Mar 09
My husband has pictures of me up on his facebook but if he didnt and I was bothered by it like you are I would ask him why there are no pics of me up there. let him no that you are kinda hurt by it.
@krupesh (2608)
• India
20 Mar 09
I dont think guys really have that in their mind.I myself have so many accounts & I have not put my wife's pic anywhere but I have put my kids pic everywhere.I have seen so many pics being misused on the internet so I dont want to put my wife's pic.That doesn't mean that I dont love her or I dont care for her.
Even if you feel he is neglecting you then ask him why he has not uploaded your pics.One more thing is not all men want their wife's pic put in the internet.I dont know why but its a fact.
@brazeel1 (21)
• United States
20 Mar 09
I feel the same way. My husband has a myspace and the ONLY pics he has on there are two of him. None of me or our kids. So I know exactly how you feel. I asked him why and he said because he doesnt know how to do it which I know is BS because there are two pics of him on there and he knew how to upload those. It hurts me too because I feel like he doesnt want his friends to see he is married or has kids but his profile at the bottom does say he is married and a proud parent so I dont get it. If you find something out that helps please let me know.
