too atached
By thompkrissy
@thompkrissy (71)
United States
November 10, 2006 2:31pm CST
mu husband works all day and i stay at home i want to go to work i feel like im starting to get depressed but my husband dont want our son to go to daycare that is his reasion for saying he dont want me to wor does any one have any sujestions on what to do???
2 responses
@meshellrose (286)
• United States
10 Nov 06
mine doesn't want me to work either..sorry no suggestions
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@MySpot (2600)
• United States
13 Nov 06
I tried to respond 5 times yesterday with no luck.
I hate to tell you, but some women probably wish they had your problem.
I was a stay-at-home Mom too. I preferred to stay home rather than have my kids in a daycare setting. Not everyone can afford to do so, so I felt very blessed.
My advice is to find something of real interest to you. Make time for yourself to do the things you enjoy. I'm talking about "me time". Maybe start a hobby or go out to lunch with the girls (friends/sisters/mom) once in a while or whatever makes you happy.
Sometimes, we are too busy giving so much of ourselves that we forget about ourselves... it can be draining and depressing, so don't forget to take a break from being the caregiver to give care to yourself... it will make you happier and more fulfilled AND a better Mommy and wife for having done it.