Advice a lover......PLS
By sagnik42
@sagnik42 (3592)
India
March 21, 2009 1:53am CST
My friend got dumped last week by his girlfriend.She has fallen in love with someone else and so she broke up with my friend.My friend loved her very much and is shattered.I tried to calm him in all possible ways but in vain.So I want your help.I need some ways in which i can console him and stop him from destroying himself...
4 responses
@grace24 (1050)
• Philippines
24 Mar 09
Your friend is in a hard situation. All you can do now is don't leave him and act as a support to him. Its hard to give advice to him because he might not listen. Maybe time will heal the wounds of his broken heart and maybe that time he is uch stronger to face those kind of problems in life. This is the time that he needs someone on his side and it is you. Just try to take him in some good places to forget his problem awhile.
@wanglu1919 (119)
• China
21 Mar 09
It's hard begin to love and also hard to over.A few month ago, one of my friends leaved her boyfriend because has fallen in love with someone else ,just like your friend's girlfriend. At that time ,my friend told me that she do not want to see her former boyfriend any more,but as her best friend,I was disturbed by her former boyfriend deeply,he called me everyday and beg me to persuade her.I don't think a gril who you loved once leave can come back , however,best wishes to your friend!@_@
@elghrasya (501)
• Philippines
21 Mar 09
Don't leave him alone as much as possible try to check him if his doing right. Tell him to move on by making himself busy. Ask him to go out for fun. Tell him to hangout with many friends and let him feel he is not alone. He is in a tough situation that's why he needs a friend so don't try to leave him okay. Explain to him that there are lots of girl out there that will love him even more and tell me not to think his ex gf so that he will not feel anymore pain. I know it's not sound easy but I believe he can make it and it's possible because of God so just PRAY and it works.
@tjdas83 (178)
• Malaysia
21 Mar 09
Well 1 week is to early to vanish the pain and heartache. What you could do is occupy him with other things so that he doesn't dwell on his girlfriend. You could invite him to mylot(if he's not a member yet) and join some of the discussions here. There are many topics on heartbreak and how people have overcome it. For me, talking about things(especially to strangers) and joining their discussions helps me focus on other things. You'll be surprised how much the advise you give others can help yourself.