What does it mean when he does not mention you?

Since there are more than one baby momma in this situation maybe this one's question was related to the kids only and that's why your bf responded like he did...because he knew that she wanted to know which kids were going. Since she knows about you I'm sure she's already assumed that you would be going along, too. If you and your guy are getting along okay then give him the benefit of the doubt and don't let your feelings be hurt over this. This is one of the problems with combined families...dealing with different exes and different kids who may or may not get along.

Hmmm.. I don't mean to sound all so negative and all, but if I were in your shoes I would have felt a pang of hurt right-then-and-there. You sure about this baby momma?? It's seems to me they've been talking a lot and she's flirting. I mean, who else would she be thinking of and how could she ask such a question?? By the way, was it you he was referring to when he said 'we are going to Florida for spring break so make sure you pack enough for a week' because if it's so, it's absolutely understandable why she'd ask 'who's we' because she might be confused if he was telling her to pack or he was talking to someone else, right? But as for your partner. Oh my gosh. That's really hurtful, not including you on his list of the WE. On the other side of things, perhaps it's understandable that he doesn't mention anymore because it's considered 'understandable' that wherever he goes, you'd go too. But still, there's something to be pondering about. And worst of it all, is that if you start talking to the guy about it, you'd be scolded or he'd go angry as to why you were listening to their conversation in the first place. Anyway, if I were you, I'd slowly and lovingly ask him afterwards if he intended for me not to come along since he didn't mention my name! hehehehhe.. But I'm sure hoping it doesn't mean anything.

Well, logically the way she asked who is we, would seem to be her way of asking if we included you and his saying all the kids would seem to be his way of saying it didn't include you. Perhaps I'm wrong but if that's what I'd heard that's what it would logically tell me. Like you said there were several other responses including you in it...even "Her and I are taking all the kids". Maybe it was the other woman's way of finding out if you were still in the picture. [b]~~AT PEACE WITHIN~~ **STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS**[/b]

I'm sorry about this Queenperk... I know it hurts when the person you love just won't mention you to the people he is with. I have had the same on my ex and my current bf. my bf of two years didn't even mention me to his family nor to his friends. I asked him if he is ashamed of having a gf online and not an american either. He said he isn't ashamed of me but I still wonder why he doesn't mention me or introduce me to his family when I know he's a single dad and I get to talk with his bro once on his profile and known he's not with another girl. I only know his brother and not his whole family. The only reason he said was that he has a lot on his plate right now and can't do anything else or even give me time or even introduce me to his family. When I had introduced him already to my own family... It's making me sad and hurt too much... But the only thing I can do is understand since I'm really far from him and no way to get to him. sigh... Maybe you could try asking him like I did though I didn't get any satisfactory answer... But you might get to have one though... Good luck... blowing a prayer to you ^_^

This is totally coming out of left field, but it might not be you. It might be him and his insecurities in regards to the relationship he still has with the other women. He's with you, so regardless what, he cares about you. If he didn't, he probably would've moved on. Given all his past relationships that seems to be how he rolls. Now, just because he's with you it doesn't mean he doesn't wants to cut off all his old relationships. And he never may. Like it or not, he has a bond with these women. So to that effect, he's familiar with them and vice versa. Subconsciously he may feel that if he mentions you, the other woman would lose interest in him and he'll lose whatever friendship is still between them, because she in turn would see how much more interested he is in you and stop caring as much about what's going on in his life. It's the type of change that most guys hate, and in my experience, don't know how to deal with.