found your wife cheating on you?
By pavan4568
@pavan4568 (122)
India
March 21, 2009 3:58pm CST
I have a friend and he found his wife cheating on him and simple solution is to get rid of her but what if he still loves her, how do you cope up with this??
I am amazed that he still likes her but what would be the best possible solution for this?? how do we bring them together??
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4 responses
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
27 Mar 09
Hello pavan4568! OMG! If you're amazed, I was shocked! Why did he still accept her? I mean she cheated on him and have s e x with another man. That's gross. I am sorry, I know I am being judgemental but I really can't help it especially if it's about cheating. For me, I won't give any second chance because I believe that once a cheater, always a cheater. The time will come that she will still have an affair again especially if they will have some little problems at home.
@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
21 Mar 09
We know very few facts about this case. Was your friend keeping his wife happy in bed, or was he just going to sleep and leaving her alone. Was he bam bam thank you Mam and then falling asleep. There are many scenarios which could be happening.I'll bet he still likes her because he knows hes not keeping her happy. Its not her fault. Too many husbands are inconsiderate and ignoring their spouses needs. Its up to him to make it right with her. If he doesn't she will leave and find a better man.
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@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
30 Mar 09
they need to talk each ohter not just to get rid off.if the partner is cheating there is a reason so they need to talk openly about it.
@chitenshi (10)
• United States
21 Mar 09
I agree with the above poster; there aren't a lot of details here, but usually people cheat because they're not satisfied with their spouses for whatever reason. Sometimes it's because the cheater wants too much, but oftentimes it's because the spouse being cheated on isn't attentive enough. If your friend is in a position where he's willing to forgive his wife and stay with her, then both people should sit down together and discuss what it is they want in a relationship. Loving relationships are about give and take, and if one person is taking too much or another isn't giving enough it could cause more problems down the road than just cheating.