She asked - "Why do you love me?"
By Volkus
@Volkus (202)
Romania
March 23, 2009 6:40am CST
Hi mylotters, I'm a little sad, I lost for another time 16 cents for saturday's earnings, and I don't know why...Anyway, today my girl asked me for what do I love her. I know the answer, I mean I answered, but I am curious what answers do women need to hear? Because I want that the next time to answer exactly as she wants to.
So, please help :)
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15 responses
@eabaterina (501)
• Philippines
23 Mar 09
i also asked my boyfriend that same question. there is really no right answer. just answer it honestly and it should come from the heart. i just wanted to find out what i did to make my boyfriend love me, it should not be about her physical traits, because if you say because you're beautiful and sexy, she will ask you again what if i am no longer beautiful or sexy, will you still love me? and we just want to know how to keep you and how to make you stay in love with us LOL =)
@vheilugto (149)
• Philippines
26 Mar 09
when someone asked you why do you love him or her, dont answer anything coz when you love someone you dont have any reason to love them. right?
@opinder (420)
• India
25 Mar 09
There is no ideal answer to this question. You just need to say what you feel. Infact, I feel the question is pointless. You love someone coz you love him/her. i asked the same question to my husband, adn he said that he just loves me. And I know that he does!! Since then I have never asked him....never felt the need to. i feel one should belive that one is special enough to be loved.
If your girlfriend asks you this question, that means she doubts herself. If she still asks the question...she ought to be prepared for the answer. men and women have different ways of expressing love. So we gotta appreciate the way our partner is and the way he/she loves.
@bosscindy (11)
• China
26 Mar 09
i am so interested in "what's you answer?"i am a lady ,in fact.i had ask this question to my boyfrined also .now i think it is a stupid question.because when him answered whateven how perfect is the answer .i also don't think is enough .because i think no word ,no sentence can expression your love .if you know the season .you must be loved very reasoning .no wonman like that .they want her husband or boyfrined loved she have no any reason and loved use all of his heart .so ,if you are need to answer a question like this .do not do any answer ."i do not know ,but i just love you deeply from my heart ."is the greatest answer.
@sujisubfans1019 (37)
• China
25 Mar 09
Hi,
I remember when I was a junior in university,a man told me he loved me. I asked him the reason, and he put it like this: you are beautiful and elegant,...... all adj. that describing a goddess. I hate such reply very much, so I just told him: what if I'm not looking like this, would u still love me?
Actually my understanding of love is, "I love you not because of who you are, but because of who I am when I am with you",I like feeling when I am with you.
I don't know if I put it clearly.
Hoping that your girl understand you!
Sebastian
@sugacarley (41)
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25 Mar 09
we want to hear the truth, no lies or cheesy lines, or things other people have told you to say, girls can tell if what you say ia coming from the heart or not. say what you feel, and if you really cannot say anything, then maybe express it with flowers or choccies? good luck!
@jhenn22 (1242)
• Philippines
23 Mar 09
hmmm..thats pretty hard to answer. well i guess you just need to answer it with honesty. You tell her what's on your heart. I believe that there is no such right answer on that question as long as you sinCErelY and make her feel that yoU really love her from the bottom of your heart.
@miamilady (4910)
• United States
24 Mar 09
What answer do women want to hear?
The truth mostly.
I couldn't tell you what to say to her because she is a unique individual.
Just curious...What DID you tell her?
Although I can't give you the specific answer to tell her, I can suggest that you tell her a few things and that some of those things might be about the way she looks, but some things should also be about how she THINKS.
I wouldn't want someone to just love me for how I look, I'd want them to love me for how I think too.
When you gave her your answer, did she seem happy with what you said?
@crazyredhead (954)
• United States
25 Mar 09
Just be truthful and make sure it's not about her looks.
@Anora_Eldorath (6028)
• United States
25 Mar 09
I ask my husband that from time to time. It usually comes up in our quiet moments together when the children are not underfoot and we're together. I like to hear how he felt about me when he first met me, first kissed me, etc. I think it's the romantic in me. It lets me know that we're still very much in love, though I don't need him to say it but I like to hear it.
I agree that most women want to hear the truth. We can generally spot if someone is being insincere so I'd just speak from your heart and do what comes naturally. For my husband, he's a hair player so he'll ruffle my hair when he tells me or play with the strands.
Namaste-Anora
@mgraham126 (156)
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24 Mar 09
If you truly love someone you should not be asking advice so you can tell her what you think she wants to hear . You should be upfront and straight about your true feelings for her. And know it from the heart.
mgraham126
@iamsolucky (1241)
• Philippines
23 Mar 09
First things first, ask yourself. Why do you like her?, why do like to spend time with her, why do you decide her to be your girfriend?. I think you have all the answers. She will be happy if your answer comes from the heart and not from your mouth only. Go and share how much you love her everyday. Life is short and if you love someone, you want her to smile everyday.
happy mylotting!